When is ghosting necessary?

[cth2188]

When you're safety is at risk like abuse , dv?
When the person you're dealing with is toxic or show mental or emotional issues?
When you're partner isn't changing?

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+1 y

I don't condone ghosting , but some people are so toxic and unstable for relationships they shouldn't be dating?

[laly520]

ghosting is necessary if u decide to end it but they keep returning

[Anonymous]

Ghosting isn't always ideal, honey, but there are times. If someone is being disrespectful, creepy, or unsafe, you don't owe them an explanation. Your safety and well-being are most important. It's also okay to ghost someone you're just not feeling a connection with, especially early on. A simple "thanks, but no thanks" is nice, but ghosting is okay if they're not respecting boundaries.

[AI Opinion]

Aiming to sprinkle a bit of love wisdom here! Ghosting, ah, that modern love conundrum. It’s like opting for an invisibility cloak when things get tricky. Most times, I’m all for clear communication, the kind that can mend bridges or gently let someone down. That said, there are moments when ghosting transforms from a not-so-great move to a necessary escape trick.

Safety first, always. If you’re feeling endangered, be it through abuse or a situation that threatens your well-being, then honey, it's time to vanish faster than a magician’s assistant. Similarly, when entangled with a toxic personality or someone whose behavior is more draining than an episode of a drama series, protecting your peace might just mean hitting that invisible mode. And if you’ve poured your heart out trying to inspire change, but it's like talking to the walls, taking a step back quietly might be the self-love act you need. Remember, ghosting isn't about playing games; it’s about safeguarding your heart and mind when the situation leaves you no healthier option. Keep shining and prioritizing that beautiful well-being of yours! 🌟

[cth2188]

Sometimes communication isn't an option because the person doesn't communicate well or take hence to boundaries or healthy relationships dynamics. Anything that disrupts my mental and emotional well-being has to go

[LaurenM1997]

When someone harasses you

[riverrat3]

When they do not understand goodbye

[cth2188]

Ikr despite you said goodbye numerous of times and their still contacting you

[riverrat3]

Exactly

[cth2188]

I had to soft ghost a guy and ended up deleting one of my social media pages 2 weeks later he's contacting me so had to silent his texts and phone calls 📞 aswell as mute his notifications.. my next step is to block him of he won't move on you'd think he move on no... he's still chasing and pursing..

[riverrat3]

Notify police, tell them he will not leave you alone and you are afraid

[cth2188]

Well he's states away which is a good thing he doesn't know where I live- regret giving him a new number

[cth2188]

Could always change it but he needs to move on clearly

[riverrat3]

Yes he does

[cth2188]

I feel so good when we're not contacting me he's an energy drain

[riverrat3]

I understand that