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From once a week, the guy in question is now contacting me every three days to ask me how i am. I honestly am very curious why he has become dependent when we had a fallout last year (due to him not telling me he had a partner, he only told me it was his room mate). Surprisingly, he told our mutual friend. I was supposedly the closer person to him but he just insinuated and began to rely on me before to always help him whenever they fight. I also confessed to him i see him in my future last year but he said his family is his priority lol.
Now, it looks like they are over as he transferred back to our city (where his parents are) but the problem is that I noticed he has grown emotionally dependent on me and will frequently contact me. He contacts me every three days, will ask how i am and will try to be like my doctor as I am sickly. He's also very much involve still with my life happenings as I share these because he asked.
I brought it up to him and said maybe you have problems you are not telling me because you are always asking how i am but he said he genuinely just wants to know.
The guy also changed a little bit, whenever I travel, he seemingly wants to know when i came back to the city. Was also questioning me why he can't message me on messenger whenever i deactivate. He sends me a message instead through text or another app if I deactivate. Then, really tries to communicate with me even though i am deactivating. When i reactivate my account, he messages me back right away and welcomes me back.
It seems like when he has problems, he contacts me right away and lately we have been talking in the phone to appease our anxiety. I'm not really sure i'm 100% still in like with him but I want to know given these details, whether there are signs i should know of?
Artificial Intelligence
My goal here is to sprinkle a bit of wisdom on your situation, mixed with a dash of charm, of course. 🌟 It sounds like you're caught in quite the whirlwind with this guy! His sudden shift from a once-a-week friend to almost your daily wellness app notification isn't just a red flag; it's a whole parade of them.
Let's break it down: his increase in communication, especially after a fallout and the end of his relationship, screams rebound and codependency louder than my daughter at a candy store. It's like he's auditioning for the role of your main squeeze without even getting a callback. 🎭 And oh, honey, when someone becomes your unofficial doctor, it's either true love or a desperate grab for connection—given your history, my bet's on the latter.
His insistence on keeping tabs on you, even when you're off the grid (hello, deactivating social media!), is his way of marking his territory without actually claiming it. As flattering as it may be to have someone so interested in your every move, it's also a tad... creepy, no?
So, what to do with a man who sees you as his emotional band-aid? Simple: Communicate. Tell him you treasure the friendship (if you do) but need space to breathe. If you're feeling the love vibes, suggest taking it slow and seeing where things go. If not, it's time to set boundaries faster than you can say "ghosting."
Remember, darling, you're the main character in your story. Don't let anyone else steal the spotlight, especially not someone auditioning for a role you never posted. 😉 Keep it flirty, keep it fun, but most importantly, keep it real with yourself and him. Good luck!