Polls: Relationships

I'm impressed with my parents' endurance, given their past infidelity decades ago. Obviously I was too young to even form sentences at the time. Actually I wasn't even born when mom cheated first and they weren't married yet. Yup they still got married later on.

Mom got caught (on his couch with his former friend... the journal I read had the graphic details of it, more than what I'm even posting) and dad cheated back years later but at least he felt terrible and confessed himself shortly. I know they worked it out long ago. Though if the cheater got caught, can trust really be regained in that case? If they confess at least there is a small chance since the person came clean but if they got caught, that has to be nearly impossible.

Apart from the hard work they did, I would like to know how is the relationship like if they stay together. Can a human really be capable of forgiving and forgetting that and regain trust if they wanted to? Personally I don't think I can work that, no matter how much counseling sessions, no way I would overcome that.

Please help me settle an argument with my boyfriend.

He never lets me play Beyonce in the car because he really dislikes her music, and I argued that the passenger is in charge of the stereo, but he says the driver is because they are the ones responsible for safety, thus they get to choose the music, and additionally that it's his car anyway so it's a moot point.

My boyfriend and I had an amazing weekend but today I woke up not feeling so well - I was head achy and dizzy all day and sleepy and nauseated…. we were out the whole entire day yesterday….

my boyfriend wanted to clean up his place today and I usually go to the gym when he cleans…. today I couldn’t go because I wasn’t well and my boyfriend was getting frustrated with me…. we also had to be at his parents for dinner later tonight and we ended up going..

why was he getting frustrated and insisting for me to go the gym even tho he knew I wasn’t feeling well? He still was able to do his cleaning even tho I was there…

(my boyfriend does have a learning disability and doesn’t always comprehend)

To start off, I'm really uncomfortable talking about this but I need some real opinions or guidance please. And my family here on GAG never lets me down. Soo... My husband seems to be blind to his friends' intentions. I've tried to tell him softly to not anger him or receive backlash but he is not hearing me. His friends are literally courting me in front of him and he just doesn't see it. They have made comments about "getting into our bed", "cooking for me", and "asking me out to new places". They tell my husband how beautiful they think I am and my husband comes back and tells me as if I'm supposed to be flattered.(I'm not a piece of meat so it's not flattering)

Am I going crazy!!! Am I missing something?

Like, they hoover around me like lions stalking their prey and I hate it. They try to control me and make decisions for me even though I don't belong to them.

We're on a friends vacation this week and I made up an excuse that I was sick so I wouldn't have to be around all the alpha energy BUT they're insisting I accompany them to each event.

What Should I Do? Honest Opinions Please 🥺🌹