🤫 do you have a backup partner on standby if your current relationship fails?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

[lightbulb27]

no, that's really bad and would prevent from working through any difficulties with partner. nothing is perfect, you have to do work, make decisions, and adjust... learn to communicate with that person and how to love them. having someone else creates trouble and false reality because you won't see the "warts" of that other person until later.

[OlderAndWiser]

I am getting married in one week and I have not been interested in any other woman for the past three plus years.

[OlderAndWiser]

Thanks for MHO!

[avery58]

That's like emotional cheating

[Asker]

It's like You're with one guy but if that relationship with that guy fails then you go to the next guy

[avery58]

I mean it's not cheating per say, but pretty close to it. Cause you're pandering a future with a specific person besides your current partner

[Asker]

Sometimes, when they leave the current guy, then go to the next guy, the backup, then start looking for a new backup partner in case the new current relationship don't work out again. It's like monkey branching

[RebelinSteel]

Yep she’s on charge at the moment. If the batteries fail with the current one, I move straight to her.