Should you always be ready to replace your partner?

[ChefPapiChulo]

i always have a plan B and plan C

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+1 y

look at marriage statistics

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simps

[Cynicaldreamer]

Please, I can't even get a Plan A. How's does it look having a backup plan if I can't even get one man in my life? 🤣

Joking aside, no. It's that kind of mentality as to why most relationships don't work out nowadays: not happy with your partner? Go to someone else! Instead of... I don't know, trying to fix your issues, or talk like mature adults.

[ChefPapiChulo]

That’s my point.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I second this, having a plan B is a sign you can't work out problems well enough to keep a relationship.

[ChefPapiChulo]

@TheSpaceGnome you’re simping

[TheSpaceGnome]

How's it simping to reply to an existing comment in agreeance instead of writing the exact same comment? why waste extra time retyping it?

[TheSpaceGnome]

Also simping is guys being nice to girls while expecting a relationship or sex in return.

1. I'm not interested in anyone on this site in that way. Nor will I ever be.
Gag lacks most of the mechanics needed to find an SO and I'm picky af.

2. I'm generally nice to everyone who seems nice, regardless of gender.

3. I didn't post a comment to be nice.

[Azura_88]

Stop hiding your lack of capacity to sustain a good relationship by simp shaming other mature guys.

[Azura_88]

@TheSpaceGnome ignore it. He is contradicting himself. He said he has plan B and C. So he's also contributing to divorce rates instead of being fixed to plan A.

[Azura_88]

@TheSpaceGnome you're being a real man instead of being an incompetent incel looking for multiple women as a backup.

[ChefPapiChulo]

@Azura_88 tf are you smoking?

[TheSpaceGnome]

@Azura_88 Yup I know, always nice to hear a voice of reason though.

[ChefPapiChulo]

@TheSpaceGnome you're being played like a fiddle. you don't even know that person.

[ChefPapiChulo]

cynicaldreamer hows the warrior going in wow?

[Phoenix98]

That kind of mentality is partly why so many people have issues with their relationships because they don't look at the person their with as someone they're gonna be with long-term but rather just someone they have to be ready to replace at the drop of a hat. And then that would bring into question why you would even bother being with someone if your planning on replacing them.

No relationship can survive when people have that kind mentality and attitude towards each other.

What you should be doing is actually making an effort to have a meaningful and successful relationship. You know communicating with each other, working through the hard times, working together to fix issues with each other and the relationship if you have any.

Besides you know your with the wrong person if they feel replaceable. The right person will feel irreplaceable.

[NyceGuyFinishingLast]

No this is a bad plan because of you have replacements for your matter then you really aren't given them a chance. You are just looking for something to go bad and when it does then you think you are justified to leave. Having what you consider replacements for your mate is a dick move.

[Anonymous]

People like that shouldn’t date in the first place. Deal with your issues first, learn from it and pick better to gamble on next time. Unless of course you’d rather your girl do the same thing, because believe me, she will. And decent girls have self worth and also aren’t going to stick around for that, same as no self respecting man would. Simple.

[SteveSmith1985]

No. Absolutely not.

The way I see it; if you feel your partner is replaceable... you're with the wrong person. The right partner should feel irreplaceable. To me, that's key.

[Iron_Man]

They have a $20,000. dollar realistic sex doll coming out, the dolls can talk back to you and move their head and put out real body heat. They can replace your girlfriend for life. Katie Couric did an interview it was on the news. So now you can have a Realistic threesome without feeling all the shame and guilt without Cheating and basically it doesn’t count as having a 3some when you’re watching your girlfriend and the sex doll scissor each other she can ever hold the title of being a lesbian because it’s all fake. But look so real. That’s perfect for you and BBella

[Hangryella]

Why even create a deep bond with something replaceable in the first place?

[ChefPapiChulo]

did u get banned?

[Hangryella]

No. I wanted to but i was goody two shoes😌

[Browneye57]

In some cases you don't really have a choice, now do you? LOL
Women ALWAYS have a backup plan - guys they keep in the wings they can call on when the chips are down. In many cases they don't even realize it.
Guys would do well to adopt a similar approach. But they don't, they put their woman on a pedestal, worship her golden vagina, and then cry in their beer when she wanders off with CHAD THUNDERCOCK. Cuz he thought he did everything right, everything she asked for.
Dumbass. LOL

[The_Maphio]

Contingency plans are something that should always be in place for every aspect of life:
work, love life, transport, sport... Everything. You never know what's going to go tits up. You better not be found lacking when that happens.

[Kas19]

I don't think about replacement, but I am usually prepared to acknowledge if i have a desire to leave. I don't like jumping from one relationship to the next. Too much work and effort.

[kkirk4442]

I've never had a plan to replace my partner, If I was in a relationship bad enough to replace my partner, I hope I would get marriage counseling. if that didn't work, I would consider divorce.

[Nikola321]

I'd never have plan B and plan C, but I think you should always be ready to break up if your partner changes or your or his/hers feelings change, or if ur relationship turns into a toxic relationship.

[Joey_007]

Not so much replace just be fully prepared to leave in any relationship really just keep a foot out the door.

[Blackcupcake]

Nope, I’d rather not be in a relationship than having to worry about that

[SunnyCaliGirl]

Why even be In a relationship in the first place if you have doubts or already have other plans if it fails. That’s not a true nor mature relationship

[beebella]

You can't be fully invested in your partner if you're already prepared to break up.

[ChefPapiChulo]

thats like getting married without a prenup

[beebella]

Not quite the same thing, bud.

[ChefPapiChulo]

yes it is

[beebella]

It's really not.

[ChefPapiChulo]

That’s the same argument made when not wanting to sign a prenup. Who would put all their eggs in one basket? A fool.

[beebella]

Smh..

[ChefPapiChulo]

what?

[DragonWhisper]

I don't know about always ready to replace someone, if even have a "backup" plan you should get out of the relationship you're in as you clearly don't have an interest in that person.

[FatherJack]

Better to be , and stay single , than need a " backup plan " , never again will I endure a relationship !

[Zaytovin]

No. Doing that automatically means you dont trust or value your partner. It also means you're insecure about your relationships. It's a bad habit honestly.

[Nazgol]

No, I think it's better to work through it and leave replacing to the last option. I been with mine for 8 years now and been through a lot but I'm still with him and I didn't leave

[deeks1121]

Why would you be? If you really love them then you should be fully invested. If your looking elsewhere then your not invested

[Dchrls78104]

No; because if so, what would be the point of entering a relationship in the first place?

[WhiteWolf69]

Absolutely not because then you can never really know if that partner can truly make you happy or not.

[CreamySeed]

The cock carrousel only works if you have the next dick in close proximity

[Joshua0213]

No thats how to lose thr current girls trust, have multiple girls

[narc-survivor]

You can’t fully be in a relationship if you have back up plans , that is a horrible way to live , and a narcissist trait

[Anonymous]

Yes. If a woman meets a man with more money she should leave her current boyfriend.

[Anonymous]

That type of thinking is the reason why your relationships don't last.

[PeacefulRainDrop]

Hell no... no one deserves to be a back up plan!

[ChefPapiChulo]

thats what you think

[wittymilf]

My plan be is freedom

[ChefPapiChulo]

Marriage is forever tho

[wittymilf]

No , it’s till death do us part 🤞 technically husband has died three times so off the hook

[ChefPapiChulo]

It almost sounded like you were planning his murder

[wittymilf]

I was expecting his death for many years before it happened

[ChefPapiChulo]

what is freedom

[NathanDavis]

You are -Plan Z- material, so this is funny.

[ItsTheNephilim]

That's so disrespectful.

[msc545]

Plan B, C, and D, and a go-bag packed in my car.

[Cherrylicious]

YES because men have spare tires all the time.

[Jamie05rhs]

No. You should be "all in" or not in at all!

[9Livezzz]

Ummmmm no. Seriously? 🤣🤣🤣

[GerdaKnoopjes]

Yes , I always let me fuck

[Anonymous]

I'm not sure marriage is for you.

[itsdeaaa_94]

Yeah like I can have plan A in the first place! 😒

[jahaims]

Nope..

[Property_Of_Jocker]

Yes and no.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

It’s slightly sad

[anylolone]

Nope.