How often should you change partners?

[Anonymous]

Every week, month, year, 5 years? 1 year is max in my opinion with one partner, longer is just unnatural. Humans are not a monogamous species.

Every few weeks

Few months

Year

Many years

One for life

[Misunderstoodvirgo6]

Well that how you feel and that fine I feel diff. I wanna be in a monogamous relationship. Id only change if the relationship is no longer working and their nothing we can do but to end the relationship so we both can find someone that we are happy with. I hope not to have to date to many people just so I can find someone I do find that feeling for that I can hopefully have a commitment and marriage.
Everyone feels diff tho on the matter it fine you dont feel like that just be honest with how you feel and what you want out of a relationship the right people will understand and will want the same.

[Broken2ashez]

You should only stick to 1 partner in a lifetime, that is how God meant it to be, and if we were to stick to His plan then there wouldn't be STDs, teen pregnancy, etc. We are to wait until we find the one we are meant for and marry them before engaging in any kind of sexual relationship, also it takes 2 years to fully get to know someone and usually around 3 years to decide if they are your one partner and that is the problem with the world today is that we are too impatient to wait to get to know someone fully, and we just jump into things.

[Asker]

Why then did god allow dudes in the bible to have hundreds of wives?

[Red_Dragon]

@Asker most people can't even begin to understand what God thinks about relationships because they are too busy following man's unwritten and written rules about it.

[Broken2ashez]

THATS THE PROBLEM WITH MEN IS THEY FOLLOW MENS CHANGING RULES AND LAWS INSTEAD OF GODS NEVER CHANGING PERFECT LAW AND PLAN, WE ARE ALL JUST BLINDED!!!
and Actually God looks down on having multiple spouses, and upset Him very much, He gave them warnings to change their ways gave them multiple chances to change and because they didn't listen God had punished their sins, just like he will all of ours

[UberTroll]

I ultimately want to stay with one person for the rest of my life so there's no minimum for me. I stay until things don't seem like they're working out. I was with my ex for 2.5 years. I've been in my current relationship for over 3 and things are still going well so hopefully there will be no end to this one.

Humans may not be monogamous by nature but it's still a choice many of us prefer to make. Toilets and computers aren't natural either but most of us wouldn't want to abandon them because of it.

[Red_Dragon]

Depends on you. YOU decide.

People give all this BS about STDs and blah blah blah. God never said get married before you get married. He just said don't fornicate. However how may exclusive couples do that?

If you want to switch partners every year, every month, every week, every day, every few hours that's you.

Having one partner isn't any more "holy". They live a lie.

[Nightingale]

Until the "what are we?" questions start to happen. Usually after a month or two.

[SaVes]

There's no universal answer to that question. Everyone has different desires and needs. Some people want to find one partner and then never change again, others don't feel that need.

Whatever feels right to you.

[Anonymous]

When she turns 40...that's when you trade her in for two 20's ;)

[NoblesseOblige]

hahahahahaha

[Terryrocks]

I change partners only after they catch me cheating. So it depends.

[iampikachu]

Every single minutes. Oh time to get a new partner.

[Anonymous]

Humans are not socks or wall paint. I believe they ARE monogamous and you should have one for life, or many years depending on whether they pass away.

[NoblesseOblige]

It's different for each person. Depends on the girl. A really awesome girl can go for years.

[Anonymous]

It seems like between 1-7 years is the natural pattern, doesn't it?

[Anonymous]

Until the relationship loses it's spark. I think probably about 1-2 years for me.. But my one relationship only lasted 3 months :( for me it was still escalating, it hadn't reached it's peak yet

[Anonymous]

I say as often as you can. Monogamy is dead. We have killed it.

[Venatrix]

No change them like a pair of socks

[questioner1991]

I have been with the same one for 3 years.

[chocolateismylover]

Hopefully I get one for life.