When do you think it's a good reason to change for your partner? Like do you think that you necessary to change or no?

[poneglyphs]

In your relationships have you ever changed for them and how did it work? Did she leave you or not?+

[CrotchRot]

I think we push each other to grow, honestly. I don't know that it's a matter of "change FOR your partner" necessarily but more like changing for yourself within the relationship.

Anyone changing themselves for the sole purpose of making other people happy is not going to be happy themselves if they do it too often.

We are who we are and we will mature into people we mature into, but not at the request of others. When it's time to change, we each figure that out on our own, and if you don't, then you won't be happy.

[poneglyphs]

True, we gotta change for the better ourselves and not for anyone else.

[loves2learn]

My husband used to have a pretty short fuse. He’s made a conscious effort to have more patience and not raise his voice with me and the kids so much. I think that was a very good change.

[poneglyphs]

Yass, so when is it unfair to change for someone?

[loves2learn]

It’s unfair to expect someone to give up a beloved hobby or change a core personality trait or value.

[poneglyphs]

True, if a girl did that too me or change anything about me like that we're going to have a bad time.

[loves2learn]

It’s never realistic to change someone. But bettering your communication skills is always a good thing.

[poneglyphs]

kk, just wondering.

[loves2learn]

Yup. Good question

[HairyPoppins]

You have to change for yourself because the change will make YOU better for yourself and the relationship. Just changing something for the sake of change because they prefer it is not wise.

We as men are not build a bears. Change has to make sense.

[poneglyphs]

Oh, okay.

[exitseven]

I have changed after I got married. We had kids right afterwards and it was very difficult to adapt to a new lifestyle. One minute I was having fun with my friends and the next I had a wife and kids and a house and all kinds of responsibilities.

[poneglyphs]

True having kids will change you

[exitseven]

I was dragged into adulthood, kicking and screaming.

[poneglyphs]

Lmao true.

[Azura_88]

When he's totally trustworthy, loyal, loving and compassionate then I'll move the mountains to change my aggressive behavior.
I will tame the wild lioness inside me and treat him like a king and a diamond he is. <3

[poneglyphs]

Wow so poetic.

[Azura_88]

But real AF. My real feelings. Hehe thanks :)

[poneglyphs]

Awesome, so I'm assuming that your one of the rare diamonds in the rough, right?

[Azura_88]

Maybe but I still have my imperfections as I mentioned above. But in terms of being direct, clear, no hidden agendas, loyalty and care yes I consider it to be rare because I don't know what's wrong with some people nowadays. They want your attention and loyalty but at the same time will flirt with 10 others.

[poneglyphs]

Yeah, for me, people just ghost me and pretend they are interested in me. Which sucks because I do want a relations and a girlfriend.

[Anonymous]

I would change something about me only if i think I should change it not to please someone else. But only if i really need to change for myself.

[poneglyphs]

Yeah, that is better than forcefully changing because your partner said so.

[Opinion Owner]

Exactly👍 if he dont likes me he can find someone else

[poneglyphs]

True, but yeah I see what you mean?

[TheSpaceGnome]

Never change for anyone but yourself, those who like what you prefer to be will stay.

[poneglyphs]

Oh, okay.

[PeacefulRainDrop]

You can't change people.. you can make suggestions but thats all they are you can chose to love them weather they do your suggestions or not

[lexaGreen]

That why it called a relationship
Mend To make sacrifices

[poneglyphs]

oh, well, I didn't know that :)

[lexaGreen]

Now you know

[poneglyphs]

kk, time to change my whole life around for one girl just to leave me :)

[lexaGreen]

Then why are you in love with her.
Love is a beautiful thing
At the same time it the worst thing that I have evet come across,
It can make you Change your attitude or life styles just for a person so don't be surprised

[poneglyphs]

That is true, I have heard of people doing dumb things for love or other things.
Hey, I don't know, I have never been in love so...

[lexaGreen]

Should we believe that

[poneglyphs]

Yeah, also never had a relationship before so yeah... :^)

[lexaGreen]

Unbelievable

[poneglyphs]

Nope, it's all true not even joking

[lexaGreen]

@poneglyphs, you need to be inLove it a advantageous

[poneglyphs]

@lexagreen oh, okay we will try to find someone eventually. Whenever I stop getting ghosted.

[lexaGreen]

You really hilarious aiit

[poneglyphs]

Uhj, thanks, but for real I'm not lying about it.

[TacosRAwesome]

If the changes your partner wants you to make will also help outside the relationship.

[Avicenna]

When you have a destructive habit, that’s something to change. Or an unhealthy liestyle. Not yourself wholesale, though.

[Lena84]

You shouldn't ever change for anyone. You're not being true to yourself. Eventually you wear yourself down. It's not worth it.

[Arumin_Ian]

Girls don't like bfs who listen to them. If you change for her, chances are she'll leave sooner

[dudeinohio]

Never change for someone. They either take you for who you are or they don't start a relationship.

[friendzoned4life]

NEVER

[poneglyphs]

Kk, so only chamge for yourself no one else

[friendzoned4life]

Yep, Just do everything to be healthy as fuck and too be happy as fuck but never for someone else if you do it for someone else you will get suicidal speaking from experience