Have you ever made changes to attract a partner?

[Choccok]

Changes in yourself, what were they?

Yes

Noo

[adam6402]

Yes. Regardless of what people say, nobody is perfectly compatible, so unless you're open and willing to change and mold to suit each other, then the relationship won't work.

And I'm not talking about lowering yourself to other people's standards. I'm talking about growing together in a positive direction and supporting each other as a couple to become a better person with your significant other.

In no way should you ever change your physical appearance or personality to suit someone else, but instead, find someone who brings out the best in you and opens up ways for you to change positively and be who you truly are.

A lot of the time, society suppresses elements of our being and who we are during our upbringing. Find someone who can bring out the real you, and you'll be much happier in your relationship.

[ProbablyClueless]

Yes, I have. I've gotten in physical shape, changed my hair style, become a kinder and more empathetic person; all to make myself more appealing to women.

[SueShe]

No, never did and never will and that for at least 2 valid reasons.

1. I don't date and

2. If that potential partner is dissatisfied with the way I look or behave, then the chances that he courts me is slim and then guess what? It makes my life easier since I don't have to get busy rejecting that potential partner. Problem solved.

Why would I want to attract any partner if I am perfectly happy being single? Makes no sense to do something to attract someone you don't want in the first place.

Finally, if a potential partner does not accept me for who I am, why should I change to be someone I am not?

[Abbycado]

Gluteus glorious why do guys think we should change for them?

[Ask105]

I think for me one girl im talking to i took her feedback and i don’t know how to express my emotions and it making me feel like i want to give up in life but were both Christian so she reminded me i should go back to church and maybe since most girls get turned off if guys says how he feels she hasn’t given up on me and im not used to that so I thought about talking to like a professional also and i been reading books on emotion something men hold in then usually explode later on she changed me for the better and im learning not to build attachment and if we don’t workout learning coping skills to be alone my whole life because women like here don’t really exist anymore

[SueShe]

@Abbycado perhaps for that?

https://ibb.co/KxDWF33K

[Abbycado]

Lmfao! XD

[DishLady]

Like what kind of changes?


Consider that the person liked you for who you were when they met you…

[Abbycado]

No, I am who I am and that’s what you get. Don’t like it, then not going to work.

[Choccok]

You believe you’re too good to improve yourself to impress and make your man happy?

[Abbycado]

If he isn’t impressed with who I am as a person, why would he be with me to begin with?

[HollyK21]

Lmaoo I’m just like what’s being “too good” have to do with anything😭 shouldn’t our partners love us as we are right now? Shouldn’t he already be impressed?

[Abbycado]

@HollyK21 the majority of guys on this site make me 🙍🏻‍♀️

[HollyK21]

Majority are Incels IRL😂😂

[SphynxUK]

I’ve not changed anything in order to ‘attract’ someone. They take me as I am or not at all, and vice versa.

[Nikki1989]

Never have and never will.

[Ask105]

I left a note wrong reply you'll find it

[jazzy34]

If he doesn't like me for me, bye.

[exitseven]

I changed my underwear.

[linka_pat307]

Yeah... I think we all do so

[Anonymous]

Maybe when I was young and foolish.