Have you ever experienced an unexplainable connection and intense chemistry with someone and found out it was mutual?

[Anonymous]

I'm not talking about a little crush. I'm talking about not being able to get this person off of your mind. You literally wake up and fall asleep thinking about them. It's constant. They're always on your mind. It's like you've always known this person. It's so intense that it's scary. You've tried moving on from this person, but everytime you do you just get pulled together again and as a result you end up getting closer and closer. There's a constant push/pull between you... from both sides. You're just constantly drawn to each other and can't quit each other. You've had conversations, exchanged looks, etc and you can believe that there's something there. There's always a sense of tension... maybe sexual when you're around each other. I could go on and on...

Have you ever experienced this? What is your story? Was it mutual? What is this type of thing called?

[destratera]

Yes. I still remember it like it was yesterday. I was dating this girl at the time. I had a great friend group and there was another girl dating a good friend. It was crazy. Like you forget who you are or are just completely and unreasonably baffled and just the sight of her. I knew she was me and I her. It's almost akin to searching forever for a piece to a puzzle then suddenly you find it and know where it goes. I of course had to break up with the girl I was with at the time. It would be completely unfair to her for me to even act like I wasn't interested because I was. She understood though, we had only been dating around 2 weeks at the time so no hurt feelings. But the issue was, the girl was dating one of my friends. It's considered against a man's moral code to steal a woman from a friend. It was an unforgivable act. But I was weak. And she was for lack of a better term my other half. And lo she felt the same. So we stole away to each other's arms behind his back. Unfortunately, we were too much alike, being both selfish as we were and hugely irresponsible. We brought out the absolute worst in each other. But in such a way that you could be stripped to your bare soul and know that another shared the same feelings, ambitions, and fears. That you could be so alike another that you know that you could never be alone again knowing that you've shared what makes you human. And that was how we left it. No words. Because we knew there was nothing to say. It's the only thing I could call absolute love. On such a level that you only need have known the person. And known that they are your other half

[JOBear]

I feel i have this exact kind of relationship with a girl... we just click... in every sense, we could talk for hours and hours and still want more... we fell out and split for 9 months, but here we are again... after non stop thinking about eachother... i don't think there's a word to describe such a thing, but it's pretty amazing 😁

[Monalisa77]

I do feel it atm but how can you tell if your over reacting it could just be in your head lol

[goddess87]

Yes i have

[Rosienosie408]

What 1st off I recently met someone 6 months ago change. Then we got together right away it wasn't expected a few days later. A few arguments occurred. I found out who's going back to a x girl friend and then coming over here to my home He was lying and playing both of us for almost a week. I got where the close to this person so quick he's the 1st person I've ever made left to and looked in the eyes while I was making up. To him it was a deep Connection for me None like I've explained before that night when we made love and I was holding his hands and I was on top of my look at him it was one. Of the most beautiful things I've ever experience. I started crying and I went in my kitchen and made me think if I were loved anybody in my entire life since I met this man since then. He went back to his. What's X? He sees me here and there we sleep together. I can't seem to stay away from them. I think about them day A night I remember dreaming about Sometimes I feel like he's around me but I can't visually see him because i'm not allowing myself to fear that's all I know

[cattertone]

I have a long distance friend I feel this way with, there's definitely a possibility something real could form between us, but the distance prevents her from committing to anything more than an amazing sexually tense friendship lol