Have you ever had emotional and/or mental chemistry with a girl, but not physical chemistry? Did it cause you to feel really attached as a friend?

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Like perhaps she has the typical disposition or character traits that you would normally fall hard for in a girl you were initially physically attracted to who you later on realized had those qualities.

Telekinetic-Potato · Accepted Answer

I've had that but it usually turns into a physical attraction after a while. Your brain starts to block out all the flaws.

I've had it happen the other way where someone I thought was hot turned uglier and uglier the more I got to know them. Then you constantly hear people talk about how hot they are but they're repulsive to you.

RavVid · Accepted Answer

Semi that way but it s more that I was attracted to the character but not the body right from the start.

DishLady · Answer

Yeah, there's a friendly attachment that forms, but somehow this one guy claimed he felt the physical chemistry on his side, which I was struggling to feel from him, so things didn't work out romantically. He's a nice guy and it would have been nice to be friends, but that's probably not happening bc he claimed to want more than that... and believes guys and gals can never be friends, which I personally think is hogwash, but it's not just up to me, so... 🤷🏻‍♀️

kylee2437 · Answer

I had a guy friend like this and unfortunately I had to end our friendship because he became salty overtime that I wasn’t feeling what he was feeling.

Anonymous · Answer

I will say that I've never been unattracted to any friend. The only thing which distinguishes attraction from passion or lust is the degree to which the other person fits with ones own ideal of what they feel is 'for them'.

MikeyObrien · Answer

Yes. I've had it happen before that I was in love with a girls personality but not sexually. And it's hard because you love them romantically but they don't turn you on. In my case she gained weight and lost attraction.

NathanDavis · Answer

I do have mental and emotional chemistry with all my friends...

DrPepper12 · Answer

Yeah. The tension is horrible and beautiful all at once.

Emmytexrex · Answer

Yeah I have a friend like that it first started like that

LEGENDARY4200 · Answer

Yes a couple of times and ended up being really good fuck buddies

andy530 · Answer

Yes I have. It’s hard

MrGSpotHer · Answer

Yes it's possible looks aren't everything

impalabill77 · Answer

Not yet.

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