Why do people keep telling me to go for a Christian or a Mormon girl when I’m agnostic?

[Stoner710]

Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?

im a conservative agnostic I do believe Christian philosophy is correct but I look at the Bible as a guide book on how to run your life same with the analects written by Confucius. but I don’t believe in the existence of god and according to 2nd corinthians 6:14 Your not suppose to be in a relationship with someone outside the faith, Which means any true Christian women shouldn’t date me because they would be going against the biblical text which makes them a hypocrite which is an issue I have with the left (along with trying to get more power to the government I’m libertarian I don’t think the government should have as much power as it does now I was president I got 90% of the United States federal government) When i ask for relationship advice most people tell me I should go out with a Christian, But I Don’t want the girl I’m with to go against her own personal philosophy in order to be in a relationship any thoughts?

[Year3000]

I don’t know you in real life. I’ve read a lot of your questions and tbh no offense I find your questions often thought provoking, but you do sound like a goody two shoes, kinda moralistic, and inexperienced with women. A lot of of your questions are about abortion, which would creep out normal girls, and maybe make them think you’re a pedophile, or even serial killer! Please don’t take offense to my answer you are probably one of my favorite users here, I’m just being honest, and not being PC, or sugarcoating shit.

[Stoner710]

shit man i appreciate it, my question are met to be though provoking, honestly i am a moralist.

the serial killing is probably more actuate i look loke a hells angles long blonde hair scruffy beard that kinda thing only thing im missing is a bike,

I don't know about the goody two shoes thing i drink and smoke weed, i do read philosophy politics and history a lot so that where my ideas come from and listen to people like Ben schapiro Matt Walsh Andrew klavan and Michael Knowles who are conservative and tend to agree with them more then Joe Rogan even though I tend to agree with Joe Rogan more than the majority of people on the left Rogan seems to be like an independent

[Year3000]

Yeah I don’t think you are like that in real life lol, I think that’s why people say it, from the stuff you describe often in your questions. Often the secular girls that would share your opinions are probably health freaks, and turned off by the drugs. Maybe you were adopted, or had a bad experience with abortion, I recommend you don’t tell girls about your conservative views just act like you don’t think that way. From my experience most girls find pro life, or conservative views really creepy, and I live in NYC not some liberal, gay, atheist, haven. Girls don’t like talking about deep shit either they like talking about reality shows, and food, most of the time, I’m pretty experienced with dating, and girls, and have been dating my whole life.

[Stoner710]

Yea being in Washington a major Leftist state (liberal are different from leftist in my mine the main thing is liberals don’t hate capitalism like leftists). Maybe moving would b3 good I got 1 more year of College was think of moving to Montana or Alaska.

As far as reality tv goes I don’t know anything about, for some reason they seem to like it when I talk about Star Wars considering I know way more about Star Wars then a normal person from playing the game reading the books. Etc I pretty much lectured to a girl (who enjoyed the lectures). About the problem with the Jedi philosophy but unfortunately my knowledge of reality tv or food is lacking Star Wars is my break from politics and history

[Year3000]

I don’t even pay attention to the shows just say yeah, or wow, when they talk about Jersey Shore, or Kim K. Why would you want to move to Alaska, or Montana? Alaska you might get paid a lot but in the winter you are stuck, and the weather is worse than the Pacific Northwest. I dated a girl from Seattle, she was really normal.

[Year3000]

My cousin in Montana, has 8 kids which are all homeschooled before corona even.

[Stoner710]

Alaska and Montana are more red states but with legal weed, I was thinking of moving out of Washington anyway, was considered Texas I could become a medical Patient again since I have anxiety in the past history of PTSD but Alaska it’s fully legal

[Year3000]

California, and Colorado, it’s legal, I think it’s also legal in Oklahoma but they don’t have dispensaries. I recommend California you can make a lot of money, better weather, like a purple state pretty moderate but kinda liberal socially.

[Stoner710]

Colorado would be alright, California is like Washington when it comes to politics and I can’t stand Gavin Newsom I can’t stand Jay Ensley and Gavin Newsom is a lot worse. I want to move to a red state with legal weed, I’ll move to California if it turned red but it’s navy blue right now, I want a state we’re my vote actually matters California my vote wouldn’t do anything like Washington where king country controls the state

[Year3000]

Isn’t Newsom pro life? Abortion is legal in Colorado for 8 months of the pregnancy. I would recommend Nevada but it’s the most progressive in the country, legal weed, sex work, tons of drugs, Christians and goody two shoes are ridiculed. I don’t like red states that much because you don’t have the same chances to make money. Trust me California is the best state in the country if you stay in Los Angeles, or San Diego.

[Stoner710]

The idea is to get away from progressive weeds the only thing I agree with on there side. I think there right on climate change but don’t have the right ideas to go about it. Also blue states are terrible run Newson is for 9 month abortions. Also progressives want major government control. I want as little government in my life as possible I’m libertarian me and progressives are completely opposite people

[Year3000]

Yeah buddy, trust me California is the best state.

[Year3000]

If you want to get laid/girls I live in a city called NYC (Manhattan) I don't know if you know it but getting laid and girlfriends is retarded easy. 8 million people stuck together. I don’t recommend anyone to live here for too long but it’s a great city in general and terrible for quality of life in the long term.

[Year3000]

It’s republican, in NYC also, no government involvement really like you can do whatever you want without getting in trouble. You might like NYC.

[Stoner710]

How is New York Republican when they have Bill de Blasio and Andrew Cuomo and AOC? New York is a fun place to visit especially with the history there (historian got 1 more quarter tell done with major minor is taking longer since Japanese is hard to learn ). But they do seem to get a Republican mayor every once in a while especially since Cuomo is responsible for killing the elderly after requiring infected people to be placed in nursing homes. they’ll Likely vote in a Republican to fix the city like they did with Rudy Giuliani or Michael Bloomberg. It’s a little crowded an cigarettes are majorly expensive but I could probably spend a year there

[Year3000]

It’s small gov, no rules, just don’t have a gun. Ya it’s republican here, definitely don’t stay for a long time, and most girls aren’t religious here.

[Stoner710]

got got 7 guns 3 are black powder lol but that makes since

[Vtballboy]

You're right -- getting someone to change their convictions for you might be fraught -- but a lotta people get brought up in a tradition and have less attachment to it than anyone thinks (themselves included) -- so they might choose to leave it for you
But I'd say people give you that advice cos christian and mormon girls are probably gonna be "nice" girls -- and maybe more obedient/ submissive -- maybe more faithful to you

[Stoner710]

Faithful is the key, obedient or submissive isn’t part of it I’m a Republican because I want limited government and frankly even the Republican want to much government for my liking the left in this country right now want to continue to expand government, It has nothing with obedient or submission. I don’t like being controlled why would I try controlling others

[American_Centurion]

They are giving you solid advice. It's not the religious part it's their adherence to traditional Christian values such as faithful marriage, modesty and chastity.
Sure there's no guarantee in life but a devout Christian or mormon girl is the kind worth marrying.

[monkeynutts]

Obviously most wealthy countries have material resources, or large and powerful armies they can use to steal them, historically the colonisation of Asia, America, Africa and India made several European nations very wealthy. All these countries have deeply devout religious people, they just don't have Authoritarian governments that enforce strict religious practices, therefore you get plenty Atheists and agnostics too.

[Stoner710]

do you got a coin philosophically I don't know if America has necessarily stolen stuff from other countries but I do agree with your assessment of Europe. however I will say people in America tend to be more agnostic or atheist and be Democrat wanting socialistic programs more than common good conservative or libertarian. I think about 96% of conservatives and libertarians tend to be religious if I remember right

[monkeynutts]

America just like any government uses its military for political goals. Thievery or bullying, governments generally can't be trusted, ever. Unfortunately most people don't realise that all warfare is some kind of thievery. It's horrible to think this but it's fact, they commit young lives for intimately a material gain. It's all about money, WW1 could have ended a year earlier, because Germany ran out of tin, France had plenty so they used the Swiss to buy it and deliver it buy train to Germany, of course they relabeled the freight because it had the French flag on it, and the German government at the time did not want the populace knowing it was doing business behind the armies back with the enemy, everything we do is about profit and loss. It's just cruel when someone profits from some poor young man loosing his eye site, or having all his limbs blown off, Or worse his death.

[Stoner710]

Fair enough I will say all governments go to war at some point, From the west to the east from north to south. I’ve been brushing up on my ancient history, literally since the beginning of civilization war was common. The Samaritans’ would war against the Egyptian’ the Egyptian wars against the The Mycenians they would also go further south into sub-Saharan Africa in order to fight over resources. And you can go on from there, there really hasn’t been a country or a city state that hasn’t gone to war in the 600s the Japanese also side one korea Kingdom bekje again the tang and silla, No one is innocent. The United States is just a new comer to an ancient tradition. The poor fight for the rich that’s how it’s always been. Hence my libertarian want very limited government and we want people to live there lives the way they see fit. Unfortunately under our current system libertarian are stuck with the Republican Party, We tried our Own movement with the tea party but the media called us racist and bigoted, It had nothing to do with race it had everything to do with limiting government control over the people

[monkeynutts]

Yeah, Ghandi, had ideas. They want your taxes, tell them can't have your children, or your next door neighbours kids either. We all got to stick together, get a chance to come to Australia, hospitality, I'll show you around Sydney, we purposefully sacrificed a lot if freedom, because culture and the welfare of my community is more important than what small percentages of our population want to do, so if you came here in 1980, I could guarantee you, that it would be a really wicked time. We were what you call libertarian, but now days Aussies are pretty sedate.

[KrakenAttackin]

Christian and Mormon women are amazing. They are not afraid of being feminine, of having a family, raising their children, and allowing a man to be the respectful head of the family.

[Stoner710]

True but won’t it go against there faith to date someone outside the faith?

[KrakenAttackin]

More than likely, yes. I am largely "agnostic" but I go to Church mostly to hear a positive message and be a part of a community. My Church is very "modern", in that it is very casual in dress, plays great live music, and gives a warm and inclusive message. You might find such a girl and go to Church one Sunday with her (after this fucking virus is over). Church has changed a lot and for the better.

[Stoner710]

You got a point, the reason I left was because I was told I’m going to hell for listening to Metallica and little Wayne so I figured screw it, I might check out the method church again I did go to a Methodist Christian camp when I was a kid but didn’t go the the church it self I went to a nondenominational one, but Methodist always seemed like really nice people maybe I’ll check them out same

[KrakenAttackin]

Good for you. Check out some of the sermons online at the church websites. I am certain you will find something that resonates with you. Also, volunteering for some of the groups is a great way to meet a good woman.

[Stoner710]

That might be fun I’ll probably need to cut my hair even though I feel like I look like Hitler is useless for hair, Long I look like a lord of the rings character

[KrakenAttackin]

No you won't. Seriously, my church has every type of person you can imagine and everyone is as friendly as can be.

[Stoner710]

That’s good and the adult crowd is probably a lot different then when I was a teenager, That when I left I felt like I didn’t fit in there

[KrakenAttackin]

I totally get it, I was the same way. Church years ago was stuffy as fuck with so much judgement. I never felt a connection. Now, the more modern churches are really making an effort to make God more approachable to everyone. Here is the head of my church, which is quite large.

http://northpointministries.org/

[Stoner710]

I’m curious what do you consider as more modern like I left back in 2010

[KrakenAttackin]

Well, I only went back to church in 2015, before that It was decades. I consider more modern to be more about actually helping and accepting people as Jesus really wanted. Jesus did not want prim-and-proper people all dressed up as his exclusive audience, he wants everyone, especially those who feel lost and isolated. The more modern churches have this approach and don't put on airs of "sunday best" bullshit.

[Stoner710]

That’s true you notice what his friends were, they were the religious officials they were prostitutes tax collectors and fisherman. He even flipped the tables in the synagogue when they were selling sacrifices I think it was

[KrakenAttackin]

Have a look, it can't hurt. Best of luck.

[Stoner710]

I shall do that after work, no one really come in here

[Anonymous]

They're hoping that she will convince you to convert.