Thinking about converting to Islam. How do I do this?

[Anonymous]

Lately I’ve been thinking about converting to Islam. I see on YouTube all these Islamic people so happy and have inner peace. Which is one thing I’ve been needing for so long. I’m always showing I’m happy but really I’m not. For those that are Islamic I have some questions about the religion. Can I convert alone? I’d be the only Islamic one in my house of Christians. What are some daily rituals? Any forbidden things to say or do? Examples any dating restrictions, clothing restrictions, etc. .

Thanks!

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+1 y

I appreciate everyone who practices Islam and worships it that gave me advice. But I was just down bad after a near car crash. For those that apparently have a hatred for it, there’s no reason to hate a religion that’s like someone hating your life choices. Does it impact your life at all? No. Done. But I’m all good now in the future if I ever do plan on practicing a religion I’ll keep Islam in mine

[Anonymous]

There are no clothing restrictions for males, however women are encouraged to dress modestly. Dating is allowed to get to know the person as long as the two of you don’t have sex and aren’t alone in private. Men are allowed to marry non-muslim women as they are considered to be more influential in the relationship as compared to women. The restriction is on alcohol, drugs, adultery, and tattoos. In order to help with your conversion, simply go to a mosque where they will be very happy to help you. Islam is considered a very forgiving religion where you can repent for breaking the rules to God thousands of times and be forgiven, so don’t stress about mess ups. Islam also recognises the original unfiltered version of the Bible as a FORMER holy book as well as the Torah but says the final book that has been passed ia the Quran, which is what Muslims follow.


Islam believes that God is supreme. There is only one God. He doesn’t resemble human form. He was not created by anyone. He has no son. Jesus (Prophet Isa in Arabic) is considered a Prophet and Messenger of God in Islam.


Last but not least, culture and religion are different. Don’t listen to anyone because there are a lot of cultures claiming to be religious in the Middle East, Pakistan and more Muslim countries however they are not following the true religion, they are being CULTURAL and affirming to family and societal standards. Read the translation of the book before taking advice from these people who twist things up and make the religion look bad.

[Opinion Owner]

Don’t blindly convert or focus on random things as it will be pointless. Read the translation of the Quran, read the science behind the religion, read about the stories and discoveries and history of Islam. Just have an open mind and you could gain some education on the religion. Gain some factual context and from there, see what your beliefs are. Mosques will provide education for free and accommodate you and your curiosity.

[Zygum]

Thanks for wonderful guidance about Islam, I am Alhamdullaha, a Muslim

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah - Islam is the 2nd largest religion in the world. It gets a bad rep due to Middle Eastern and East-Asian countries usually being extremely old fashioned, cultural, and focused on how they will be perceived in the family. This is a problem with the cultural dynamics rather than the religion itself. As there are such a LARGE number of Muslims in the world it’s ridiculous to say there is a problem with the entire religion based on the actions of a select few who aren’t even doing the “religious” deeds preached in the Quran. Oh well, it is not just Muslims that experience stereotypical ignorant views it’s every minority group. It would be nice to blame individual people rather than an entire group of people but I guess that’s just the way life works.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Finding peace within is spirituality and it has not so much to do with any religion.

Religion uses spirituality as a tool to make others belive in it more.

Actually their is no religion in the Universe that teaches or preaches bad things or makes you sad or unhappy or happy and joyus.


Religion is a bilief of someone else that make you think that if you do so and so you will be so and so and you will find something that others didn't.

But no matter what it isn't religion that would make you happy it's your conviction and self trust and being aware and taking informed decisions that will keep your mind calm and peaceful.

The thing with religion is its a tool to be self aware it's like a union or group that has same goal.

Honestly religion doesn't grant you anything but only a hope to lead life and take it further.

You will still have to solve all your troubles by yourself as a human there is know other way.

You have to gothrough pain and pleasures and experience high and low moments.

You need learn how to balance your experiences that's what is required for you than switching religion.

Religions and history are modified by people in power to favour them and have control over masses.

If you want to be happy you have to Will and work towards it that's the only way.

For handling pressure and all you need to learn meditation balancing the the air within will help you balance your life.

This body is made of 5 elements and if you find a way to balance those you will lead a good life

[Aassem]

How far away is the nearest mosque from you?
_ Yes you can convert alone.
_ About every other thing you must go to a mosque and ask every question you have to a Shiekh.. There's a lot to learn about the Islamic religion, but if you think it's gonna completely change your life you're absolutely right.

[Asker]

It’s a little over 4 miles from me. I just want to find ways to become happier like Kylie Irving is. Lately I’ve been feeling down for the past year or so and want happiness in my life.

[Anonymous]

i don't think you know enough about the religion to start converting. Dating restrictions? lol, you're not allowed to date, only propose from the get go, you can't kiss or touch your fiancee until you get married, you can't even be left alone with her. You have to pray 5 times a day, fast for a month (no water) give out a portion of your money to charity (if you earn above a certain point, and in certain occasions you just have to do it), you can't drink, you can't do drugs, you can't gamble, some islamic scholars think you can't even listen to music and play video games (oh and porn is of course a big no no) tbh it depends on how serious you wanna take it, by the way just remembered, no tattoos either. Just kiss fun goodbye (sorry, but come on.) you can't touch women except some family members and your wife (not even a handshake) anal is forbidden (yes, with your wife) the restrictions are simply too many to count, and "scholars" still try to make more restrictions, and if you leave be prepared to be harrassed at best, and at worst have your life threatned. Good Luck!

[Husamettin]

I am a Muslim and I know that Islam is not like that. They have responsibilities as you describe with their Christians, but no one except nuns and priests does it. There is no compulsion in Islam and everyone who believes in Allah deserves paradise. and God imposes prohibitions for our sake and for justice among us. While harassment, murder and many crimes are rarely committed in Islamic countries, you cannot say that these prohibitions are meaningless.

[Opinion Owner]

@Husamettin ok tell me one thing that i said is haram that isn't actually haram. I'll wait.

[Aassem]

No what you said is true and I admire your education.. But the last thing is false, about the harassment and threatening to reverts tho that it might happen but it also is haram in Islam.

Yes a true muslim lives their lives restricted and the discipline themselves greatly to follow these restrictions and the love their life this way and wouldn't ever wanna change it as they look around and see what other lives are living and feel very content that they aren't like them.
And I see that none Muslims who are happy also are disciplined to a point and restrict themselves from certain things to live a stable life..

You see if you ask people who are sugar free they would tell you it's great cuz it keeps their energy levels stable unlike the ups and downs they experienced with sugar, and when they eat sugar again the feel that intense fluctuation in energy levels again and feel like it's not worth it. That's just an example to the stability that Islam provides to a persons life. And they sacrifice this thrill and choose to live this boring way any day after they experience how much better it is..

Anyways it's not as negative as you make it sound. Wish you the best.

[Aassem]

One more thing Islam is about peace it's about letting you be you and just leaving you do your thing, any other forceful ways a muslim does is a sin. We are ordered as Muslims to leave people alone and not force anything upon them. But we are also ordered to defend our religion and our territories when we are attacked.

[Opinion Owner]

There is literally an aya about killing people who leave Islam, I know that most muslims aren't terrorists but most of them sympathize with it, like most muslims are ok with the charlie hebdo attacks

[Aassem]

And there are many other Ayahs that says that we should it's an absolute sin to harass or threaten anyone outside of Islam, there's a context for every Ayah. The bottom line is that Islam is about peace, the meaning of Islam is literally "Let peace!".

[CountessSarah]

It's not about whether a religions followers appear to be happy - it's about whether or not you are convinced of the claims.
I'll just grant, for the sake of argument, that your average muslim is happier - It doesn't make their claims true. Switching one lie for another isn't an improvement.

As for muslims being happier on Youtube... I dunno who you're watching. But it sounds just like you're buying into marketing. Every religion claims its followers are happiest.
But islam is not a liberating religion - Be careful what you wish for.

[Asker]

I kinda get what you’re saying. I just want to find ways to be happy. I was watching a ted talk the other day and the girl was saying how there were 2 Islamic girls that gave her extra clothes and food and were the most generous and nicest people she’s ever met. Then I see a basketball player named Kylie Irving and he seems to not care how people feel about him which I want to not care how people about me 24/7. Also he just is so calm and chill. I think part of the reason I’m not happy is because of my job in retail at a grocery store but other than that it’s just how my life is.

[CountessSarah]

Islam wouldn't change any of that.
Two girls gave clothes and food to someone who needed them.
A basketball player has the self confidence to not care about people not liking him.
You're unsatified with your job -
Adding or removing islam from any of these examples would change nothing.
You'd just be an equally unhappy muslim working in a store. Only difference is now you have a perpetually angry skywizard to appease.

[Asker]

I’m not doing anything yet but I have heard that adding a religion adds meaning and happiness to ones life. I’m technically Christian but I’m the least Christian one can be. I celebrate Christmas and Easter and that’s it. Never prayed , been to church , read the Bible or any of that. But I’m just not sure of what to do. But I think all religions have a “angry sky wizard “ so nothing different

[CountessSarah]

So, you're a moderate, non-practicing christian - do you think you'd be any different as a muslim? You'd have even more stuff to do.

[Husamettin]

Hey friend, don't look at the Arab countries. Turkey is the best example for Islam. Also, Islam is a religion of tolerance. So don't be nervous about flirting or getting a tattoo or being covered up.

[CountessSarah]

Religion of tolerance. Yet I would be killed for visiting a muslim-majority country.

[MissRomantic]

Well an important thing to know is that Islamic Scripture claims that everything in the bible is true. The bible says that the one true God is the Father of Christ - not Allah. The bible also describes that a false prophet does not live up to Jesus’ teachings which Muhammad failed to do. Muhammad beat his wives, killed those he hated, and raped women. I can tell you that there are many Christians I know who are happy people too. I think those people are happy because their relationship with God is genuine and comes from the heart. They aren’t simply churchgoers or religious people. Religious people do not necessarily have a genuine relationship with God.

[jshm2]

It's always good to upgrade and be more content. It's probably best you speak to a mosque imam, and Muslim friends, than strangers on the internet.

Regarding your questions. you revert to Islam, not convert. Muslims believe everyone is Muslim but they just choose to be different, to follow the crowd. Your "shahada" will need to be with an imam anyway. Best keep your revertion secret until you're a bit older though.

But there are small things you can do until emancipated like not eat pork, don't drink alcohol, etc etc. There are many books on the subject. But your local imam will be more in tune with what would be best for you to read.

[Potatofacebarbie]

When you are a Muslim, you wholeheartedly believe that there is no god except for Allah and that profit muhammed peace be upon him is his final messenger. You try your best to read the Quran and follow its teachings and repent when you have sinned. Ignore all the people telling you about all the things you automatically need to stop in order to become a Muslim. Thats not true. Every Muslim interprets the Quran differently and there are Muslims who are a lot stricter than others. Dont let anyone tell you you cannot be a Muslim if you dont do 1 2 and 3. THE ONLY THING you need to do to be a Muslim is to believe my first point, that there is no god but Allah and that Muhammed is his messenger, and say the shahada (which is basically you stating that you believe it) Start by reading the Quran.

[Anonymous]

How do you find happiness in a religion which literally talks about having sex with a 9 year old girl and killing all non Muslims and atheists? I'm not even kidding. Either you're a muslim and you're here to troll or you're just a person who isn't sure about what islam or quran is, you just watched some videos of "happy muslims" and decided to convert. Better stay an atheist rather than converting to such a cult which is disgustingly backward and oppressive towards women.

[Husamettin]

I don't know where you see Islam, but where I live there is no harassment and rape, no fighting, theft and murder. Also, Islam does not accept those who do them. Daesh organization is an organization that does not apply the rules of Islam and is against Islam. Do not compare us to them. If daesh is islam, hitler is christian. I wish you a good day

[Zygum]

@Husamettin, Very good answer, but need more guidance to such people, who have wrong concept of Islam. Alhamdullaha, I am Muslim, I always try to display real picture of Islam

[Anonymous]

Quietly, to yourself, make the intention to embrace Islam as your faith. Say the following words with clarity of intention, firm faith, and belief:

Say: "Ash-hadu an la ilaha ill Allah." (I bear witness that there is no deity but Allah.)

Say: "Wa ash-hadu ana Muhammad ar-rasullallah." (And I bear witness that Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah.)

Take a shower, symbolically cleansing yourself of your past life. (Some people prefer to shower before making the declaration of faith above; either way is acceptable.)

THAT'S IT. You don't even need an Imam

[Zygum]

Very good, Jazzak Allah,

[Opinion Owner]

@Zygum Did you do it?

[A_Bell]

No religion will grant you peace nor happiness.

Both come from your own choices and habits. Once you make the choice to be happy, you'll be happy. Once you practice habits that being peace, you'll be at peace.

Outside stimulants, whether drugs or the opiate of the masses will bring either.

[Gabbledegak]

Maybe read into it a bit before just thinking about converting. There's all kinds of rules. Which you should probably learn before thinking about converting.
Why are you thinking about it if you dont even know how to.
I'm thinking about painting the walls in my house. How do I do this?
Your question seems a bit ridiculous.

[_no_one_]

I'd say before taking such big steps that would totally change your lifestyle, consider deeper and legit researches and stats not youtube cuz mostly they are just trying to spread their ideology as much as possible which has been hindered a lot than it originally was.

[queenofnorth]

Try to be a Muslim one day for example. pray etc. Realize if you are happy or no. this can work. It's a simple way to decide in my opinion. Islam is a beautiful religion just like Christianity.

[Asker]

Like I’m kind of new to religion. How exactly do I pray? I’ve never done it. Tried it but was doing it wrong probably. But I’ll definitely try tomorrow

[brokengirl1]

It’s easy. As you said you saw videos on YouTube right? So they also have videos on how to pray, we pray five time a day and it’s very easy and you can also find videos on what is forbidden and all your questions

[queenofnorth]

if you ask me, i start with dua (search it on youtube I can't send it to u) i hope it helps. pray is kinda hard to begin but dua is definitely for you.

[Asker]

Thank you a lot for your help !! I tried searching online on some websites that kind of look like this but they just say what each one is and doesn’t tell me how to do it now that I found the right video I’ll start ASAP. Also quick question, I saw she said 1 I need a Makkah but I don’t have one. Is that required? Same with the clothing covering full body

[brokengirl1]

According to the traditional view in Sunni Islam, men must cover from their belly buttons to their knees, though they differ on whether this includes covering the navel and knees or only what is between them. You can google it and all your questions

[queenofnorth]

no, u don't need that. u can do it with your normal clothes but not with shorts for example but pants and t shirts aren't a problem logically. search for it too good luckkk

[Zygum]

Thanks for guidance about Islam. May Allah bless you best reward. Jazzak Allah

[Zygum]

Yes, you do Dua to everyone, to Allah put then on right path

[Anonymous]

if you don't have inner peace from your current religion what makes you think you will obtain it by switching to another?
I kind of think you want to be Muslim b/c you think its hip or something or maybe to annoy your folks.
before converting you should try traveling to an Islamic country and try hanging around a bunch of Muslims. XD

[Asker]

I’m not trying to annoy my family or friends. I just see all these people online being so happy and satisfied with life. I want that. I don’t believe it’s “hip”. I don’t know a single person that’s Islamic but I’ll definitely think about traveling to an Islamic country once I’m older

[Zygum]

First of all you can get information and guidance from, ISLAMIC GUIDANCE CENTRE from your city or country if you do not have, then go to Google search and search, Islam:, this is very big web. site, including all information about Islam, if still you need help then contact me with your country name

[Husamettin]

My friend, you have to believe that there is God and one in Islam. You should believe that the prophets of Adam, Abraham, Moses, Jesus and Muhammad came one after another to teach Islam. And you have to believe in the Quran. Worship is compulsory, but there is nothing like those who do not do it cannot enter Paradise. Apart from these, you must follow standard moral rules. Islam is that easy

[AmeerX]

No dating restrictions except sex. No clothing restrictions as such. You will need to believe in Allah, last prophet Muhammad, other prophet, Angels, and holy book.
Pray 5 times a day

[Anonymous]

ROFL. Happy and inner peace? What cracker jack fucked up videos are you watching?

[Iron_Man]

That would be the worst mistake of your life it’s nothing more but a fake religion. It’s all about Christianity the real God

[John_Doesnt]

Why would you want to become an oppressed terrorist?

[Husamettin]

Hey man why would the Jews share the same religion with a man who makes soap🤣

[Havill4nd]

Just because you've seen a few Muslims with inner piece doesn't mean Islam will work for you. There are other way to find inner piece.

[hela1110]

I'm Muslim n if u need any advice u can ask me anytime

[Anonymous]

go luck you will be put inside the snake that circles the earth
and be tortured

allah is fake
he is a fallen one
the spirit of the Anti Christ

[Husamettin]

Hey anarchist friend try to learn your religion

[Opinion Owner]

@Husamettin

shut up idiot you atheist will be put inside the snake that circles the earth

[Husamettin]

Hahaha

[Opinion Owner]

@Husamettin

atheist are stupid