Why does God love my brother more than me?

[Anonymous]

God gave my brother a special talent that helped him get a girlfriend and no talent that has helped me get a boyfriend, and people replied with “opinions” about this in another question I posted, and someone on here thinks I want a boyfriend just as an accomplishment or something and they are VERY wrong about that!!! 😠 I am romantically LONELY 😞, so why does God love my brother sooooo much that He gave him a special talent that helped him get a girlfriend so that he’s not lonely, but didn’t do that for me so that I’m lonely 😩?

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Why is no one else answering!!!

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This site is full of rude people that don’t answer me!!! 😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡 I HATE GOD!!!😡😡😡😡😡😡

[behnam1999]

There is a faulty mindset that most people have, that we need to get into a relationship to get over loneliness and feel good about ourselves; the truth is, however, quite the opposite; we need to get over loneliness and feel good about ourselves if we are looking for a healthy and long-lasting relationship. If you don't feel good about yourself, you can never make other people feel good and happy. Do not focus on trying to find someone right away. Start improving yourself. Identify your weakpoints and try to remove them, and at the same time strengthen the good things that have already existed in you even further.

Everybody has their own interests. See what you are interested in the most and pursue it. Never let doubt stop you from going your way. Your talent most likely lies in what you enjoy doing the most, and what you think you are good at, even if it seems like only a little thing!! Little fires start conflagrations!!

You will eventually see that the right person comes into your life!!

[behnam1999]

And a piece of advice.. Never ask people to comment on such things. They will never make you feel better. I can totally understand how much negative energy you might have gotten from some people's comments on this question. Never ever ask for sympathy from people. 😊

[Asker]

@behnam1999 You are so right about that! I got a couple of “jerky” responses to a very similar question on here—actually, I think it might be one that YOU responded to (I think I gave you MHO for that by the way—you deserve it 🙂). Thank you for being so positive and helpful about this! 🙏🙂

[Asker]

And I just saw a new one of those as we speak and I made sure to give him the “disagree” reaction! 👍😄

[behnam1999]

Thank you for the MHO. I told you what I believed in. Hope it helps you to get over your problem (or probably not even a problem, just bad feelings) and improve yourself.

Ignore negative energy. 🙏🌹 Focus on the positive. Most problems can easily be solved if we try to have a postitive outlook. If you change what goes on inside, so many things will start to change outside.

[Asker]

Thanks @behnam1999 and I sent you a private message.

[behnam1999]

I replied. 😊🙏

[Asker]

@behnam1999

I sent you another private message replying to your last one to me.

[jshm2]

You're lonely because you're obnoxious. God doesn't give you those problems, your bad habits do.

[astrophelle]

Lmaoooo how old are you?

[Asker]

@astrophelle

What does my age have to do with this? 🤷‍♀️

[astrophelle]

Because for a 30-35 year old person it's a very funny rebellion. I think your age is fake.

[Asker]

But I’m lonely and my brother is not. 😓

[bigmeat6969]

testing ur patience

[Asker]

@bigmeat6969

May I ask what you mean by that?

[bigmeat6969]

som people lose patience n becom angry bcz they dont accept the fact that som people have what they wanna have ! so they do bad things ! som people dnt ! n thats the test ! remain calm , things gonna be better only if you belive that god is " JUST "