How to stop getting to optimistic about men and think they are sent by god?

[catarecute]

i keep dating men who i feel are sent by god to be my destiny. just cuz they have a couple of things in common with me. how to know if a man is sent by god?

[Jbear27]

Stop believing in fairytales. Make good choices, be open minded and be observant of your potential partners intentions. I’m out there to find an attractive woman whom shares similar interests and values with me. As a man and a sexual creature I also want to have sex and make love to my partner and this is something that I’m not waiting for marriage for. I think sex is part of a healthy relationship. Nothing wrong with people that want to wait if they are likeminded but don’t judge people that aren’t. Anyhow, good luck to you. Don’t settle for less than you feel you are worth.

[catarecute]

sex feels better when there is love. sex without love doesn't feel good at all. it makes me want to shower to wash the sin away.

[Jbear27]

Hey there is no argument from me there. I only have sex with women I have pure intentions with and have feelings for. I never use sex as a recreational event. It’s a shared intimate experience with someone you care deeply for. So I’m not trying to tell you to be promiscuous. Not at all.

[catarecute]

thank u i won't to me marriage is love/ love is a spiritual marriage adam and eve didn't wear a white dress or a wedding ring or sign any documents but they were allowed to have sex as they loved each other. some people get married and dont love each other. so their sex probably feels unpleasant as well.

[aceleon]

well we are exact opposites with each other lol, you date guys you think that god sended them just because they have qualities you consider good and optimistic about it while i avoid woman and absolutly certain they are the spawn of the devil just because they have bad attiributes i loath and pessimistic about it. hi yang i'm yin.

[RoseySarah]

Lmao sorry my friends ask this cause they feel mine was.

My answer is no man is sent from God cause we have free will and choices.

Men will always come most just want sex. Look for long term and make sure they can wait till married for sex!

Look for a man walking with God and keep waiting till your paths both cross.

Does he want to build a future or for it to just happen God's will... Those who blow with the wind won't be around for long!

[catarecute]

thank u that helps a lot sometime god makes people meet but we have free will to not want the person god has sent us. i makes more sense now thank u

[RoseySarah]

Very true I will say paths are destined to cross and we meet a lot of people but there is no Right Choice.

Pray about it and make sure you feel you hear him... Not your own brain saying yes!

[Lara_Croft]

Ask the Holy Spirit of God to guide you. My mom told me, a husband is the only thing God doesn't chose for you, he gives discernment and you use it in turn to be with the 'right' man. Stop listening to your heart, it's deceitful Jeremiah 17 vs 9, rather look at long-lasting traits in a man that will stand the test of time in marriage- if that is your desire

[strateguy632]

"things in common" just provides topics for talk and activities. that doesn't indicate if god was helping you.

the fact it repeated, and you found the first one "sent by god" didn't work helps teach you to ignore that erroneous thought.

[MrCommodore]

Don't overthink it, just trust that you will know when you meet Mr Right.

[Andres77]

STOP DATING!!!

That's the solution. Move ahead with your life and become whole on your own. Then as YOU move forward along YOUR path you'll find someone of like mind. Dating strangers is about as stupid a practice as I can imagine