Do you believe that there is just one specific person that God has for you to marry?

[Anonymous]

I've heard many people say that when the time is right God will send them a husband/wife and other people have said that they don't believe that there is such a thing as "The person you're supposed to marry/if that's the person God has for you" because there isn't just one specific person I guess if that was the case then you'd meet them right away... it's about who you're compatible with and if you share the same belief in other words if you're equally yoked... what do you guys think?

[ohsheeT]

This is such a hard question for me because I believe in relationships I believe in commitment I believe in love I also understand how we are made

I also understand all. The different types of Love there is. We and everything on this planet is made of energy we are some of the most special things in this world we were made with perfection..

Our destiny in life is to become one with ourselves that means truly love ourselves and truly give to ourselves to give to others

You're meant to become one with others

You're meant to become one with this universe that means love everybody that means adapt to become one with every energy.

You know anything about love if you know anything about energy and what that feels like when you become one with somebody it is the most beautiful feeling you're ever going to feel in this world

Because it's a sexual feeling too at the same time and this is where I get lost and I think a lot of people get lost because I think we think that since we feel that we need to experience it and that's me no matter what I want to experience everything on this planet to understand it better

But I don't think it's for sex I mean I wish it was but I don't think it is I think we're supposed to just become one myself others and this universe that's our destiny to bring the whole puzzle together to get to where we're going

But I mean I could talk to you for 20 minutes probably I could tell you everything about you you would feel my energy from a hundred feet away you would be curious you would want to explore it probably because it's such a beautiful intense feeling and a lot of people think that is love

When people make love they're becomes a moment right before you're both going to have an orgasm where there's clarity and everything you can read the person's mind that you're with just about

And in that moment you feel so good you loved that that person is making you feel that good so you think of it as love and it's not it's too energies becoming one it is beautiful it is unreal when you can have that connection

But people that take that connection as love they get together they get married they get divorced because they don't understand what was really happening

. All I know is that it's like people that use the word soulmate I believe we are all soul mates because we all came from the same place

I think there is one person for us I think there's two people for us I think there's three people for us but we have a choice to make and to be true to ourselves we can only have one of those people.

That's why there's so many people that get into relationships really cheat because they feel that disconnect from the first person that they had such a beautiful connection with but somebody new comes into their lives and make them feel that same thing so now they create chaos and hurt pain by doing with her doing to the other person by cheating..

Each and every single day we become a different person everything changes and I think in relationships you have to change with it to grow with it to keep it expanding to keep that excitement into it and for a lot of people that's very difficult to do but I think in the grand scheme of things that's well worth it I have to be honest with you I'm one of those people that got
Divorced

Before I got a divorce I tried to do everything in the world to make it work out but I just couldn't do it I didn't want to do it I wanted out of it we were just too young.

But I think there is the right person for us all but who is that right person you know I know I love this question though I've really I've thought about this question many times and thanks for asking I like it and I think everybody that's been in a relationship and it didn't work out you know maybe it could have worked out if we knew things different or if we did things different before we got to the point to where things were in such chaos we said forget it we went out but I don't know I love this question though thank you

[ChicoFromThe305]

It is one person, and why would you meet them right away? It's not that simple, it would most likely be that simple if Satan didn't exist but satan uses your own imperfection against you, makes you choose people that aren't good for you, it's a spiritual war and your free will plays a huge part in it, Satan wants to destroy you while God wants the best for you, there's a lot of influence around us that help us make decisions, either good or bad influences and the truth is that this person God has for you will only be found if you follow gods guidance, if you follow your own it can lead to bad results, choose your partner based on the requirements god says we should follow in a marriage and make sure this guy has those requirements and you can't fail.

[Asker]

Thanks for sharing.

[jennifer_bloom]

I do not believe most people are only compatible with a single person on earth but I do believe that God knows when his decision is so perfect that it does not need to be improved on with alternate options so that single choice you are given could be interpreted as destiny since there are no other choices for you.

[Asker]

Thanks for sharing.

[virtualwasp]

Yes, just one.

[PolishedMonkey]

Yes, of course. I stopped at the third, but I've known people that married all 6 or 7 of them over a lifetime. Regardless of how you feel about "the one" or that being total nonsense, if you choose to get married and then choose to stay married, it's an assload of work and you're either going to commit to making it work and staying together, or you won't. But always remember, no matter what you ultimately choose, they'll get half of your stuff if you don't have an iron-clad prenup so if you can't imagine giving half of your stuff to someone in a few years, you may not want to marry them.

[Anonymous]

No. He might have an ideal partner for you. But if you turn your nose up at that one I think with most people he'll give more than one opportunity to. They just might not be as ideal of a match as the first. I'm convinced he sent my ideal match to me when I was 21. only at the time I wasn't smart enough to realize that.

[Asker]

Thanks for sharing.

[BarryLiverstone]

I believe that God has a plan for my life. Have seen far too often when I choose selfish things and fall off the path He made how I just myself. I don’t necessarily believe He created one person to become my wife as I do know we have free will. However I trust God and He knows who my wife will be; it’s why I include her in my prayers and why He is protecting her until I can.

[BarryLiverstone]

*hurt myself

[Berethor]

I don't believe in supernatural stuff, and in my age it would be silly to look for perfect.

[Cheerfull009]

Yes, we Muslims believe, that Couples are made in Heaven, so both partners are definitely meet each other, as they are made for each other, no doubt, there is specific time and place for their meeting, I have seen failed engagements and failed marriages, but later same couples get their real partners and live happy and successful life

[AviatorTom]

No, I do not believe in the concept of a soulmate. There are many people who can make an individual's life happy. The hard part is finding one of them, and then realizing what you've found.

[thearchjoker]

god gave you free will, no? If so you are free to pick whoever you like.

[Ladsin2]

The idea sounds like the concept of soul mates. I don't believe in that. I believe that you make a commitment to someone and make them your soul mate/ god chosen.

[DrPepper12]

Don't believe in God. I do think fate, coincidence and karma have an EXQUISITE sense of humor tho!

[LiamJHayden]

I do not believe in the "one." You can marry any who meets the requirements.

[onedarkcloud]

If that were true, then GOD sent JLO 4 of them LMFAO

[FunkyMonkee]

No. I don't believe in god.

[MasterKS]

No! Human are polygamy!

[jahaims]

No, I'm not a moron.