I keep fighting before bed with wife it bothers me that she shuts down and leaves during the fight?

[peekabooh400]

• Things that anger me

Ordering door dash

Sleeping more than five hours

Not making the bed

Not deep cleaning the bathroom after a shower

Everything not lined up in fridge

Not going to church

Not reading the bible

[OneViewpoint]

Your wife should dump your ass ASAP and go find a guy who hasn't had his brain fried by toxic religion.

Deep cleaning after every shower? That's obsessive.

Sleeping more than 5 hours? Creepy and obsessive. Who are you to dictate her sleep?

Everything not lined up in fridge? Once again, obsessive. Why?

Not going to church? So you think you're entitled to dictate this to her?

Not reading the bible? And you are the arbiter of this too?

Dude you have some serious mental problems. You're gonna have problems coexisting with ANY other people. I'm betting you don't have any friends outside of your "church" group. And I'm betting you won't allow your wife to have any friends outside of your friend group.

[strateguy632]

Don't be so bossy. Sleeping is recommended nine hours, who said only 5 hours? "Healthy adults need at least seven hours of sleep per night".

https://www.sleepfoundation.org/how-sleep-works/how-much-sleep-do-we-really-need

Deep cleaning? How can you expect a major job every day?

Does your church preist* agree you are being reasonable? Consult at church.

[jshm2]

Seems you might be the one with the issues needing therapy.

[Apple1996]

Do you have OCD?

[peekabooh400]

Yes.