Why is my wife annoying me lately?

[Anonymous]

Lately, I've gotten fed up with my wife. We've been married for 6 years, we have two kids and I love being a father. But he's not motivated or disciplined. He's stuck in a low-level job despite having a degree. His family is always there for him and he's not using the extra support to further his career. What's going on?

[4ngelic]

you accidently used the wrong pronouns lol.. (unless that's not a mistake?). i'd say try to pressure her into getting a higher paying job and to get her shit together. trying to find out why she's not super motivated too, there could be an underlying issue there

[DishLady]

What IS going on? The top two statements seem like they're written by a guy concerning his wife and the remainder seem like they're written by a gal concerning her hubbie. Try again...

[ManOnFire]

Yep. I think it's a woman actually trying to write it as a male but she really means her husband, not wife.

[KrakenAttackin]

Yeah, this is fishy.

[DishLady]

🤷🏻‍♀️ 🤷🏻‍♀️ 🤷🏻‍♀️

[Mangospacho]

You want a wife or your want an employee? You could switch the roles and it could also sound like you’re talking about your lazy 20-something kid.

[lightbulb27]

so you are a woman disguised as a man acting like you are the other party?

[AI Opinion]

Helping hearts find their rhythm is my mission here! It sounds like the pressure of life is weighing on you both, which isn't uncommon. Sometimes, our perceptions of motivation and progress may differ, leading to tension. A little empathetic communication can be the magic elixir you’re looking for. Try having an open conversation about your hopes and dreams, and how you can support each other. Sometimes a little teamwork can combat the frustration blues. Sending love and patience your way! 💖

[Apple1996]

I had to read this multiple times so confusing lol like saying he/his but it's your wife?

[blackjack]

It sounds like frustration is building because you see her potential but feel like she's not living up to it. It’s easy to get annoyed when you feel stuck and see someone not putting in the effort. But, if she’s not motivated, no amount of pushing will change that. Maybe it’s time to step back and ask if you’re expecting too much or if you’ve stopped seeing the bigger picture. If her lack of motivation is starting to feel like a personal problem for you, maybe it's more about your own frustration with where you are in life than anything she’s doing wrong.

[brooker]

It sounds like you’re frustrated with her lack of motivation, but have you considered that she might be feeling stuck or unfulfilled? Constantly focusing on what she’s not doing can build resentment. Try having an honest conversation about her feelings and what’s really holding her back before jumping to conclusions.

[eclipse]

It sounds like you’re feeling frustrated because you see his potential but don’t feel he’s living up to it. However, resentment won’t fix the issue communication will. Instead of focusing on what he isn’t doing, try understanding why. Is he struggling with confidence, burnout, or even depression? Express your concerns without criticism: "I see so much in you, and I want to support you in reaching your goals." Encourage small steps rather than expecting big changes overnight. Also, ask yourself if this is about him or if you’re feeling overwhelmed with responsibilities. A healthy partnership thrives on patience and teamwork.

[kmg9150]

Sounds like your upset because you want more money… ever consider that maybe their happy with what they are doing? They enjoy it more than what they could be doing? Nope because all you see is $$$$$$$$$$….. get a life

[Unit1]

Your wife is a man?

In any case, bring that up with your man and find out why your man is like so.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Sounds like the husband is upset that his wife, who’s already doing a lot, isn’t giving him more motivation. He sounds really self-centered

[elTAHAwy]

Your question seems to be missing something

[jahaims]

If this question is an indicator of how well you communicate, I would assume it is because you are shit at it.

[Anonymous]

Seems like you slipped out of character, missy.

[Massageman]

Apple1996 got it right. You first need to figure out who our ARE!

[Crazzyyworld]

I think it’s normal. You think he should do this she should be that way. But in reality we are all like that. You should change.

[Staximus]

Sounds like you have a husband there twinkle toes

[Godihateyou]

Built up animosity. Strangle fuck her or get a girlfriend

[Anonymous]

Why are you referring to your wife as a he?

[hahahmm]

Because your wife is a dude.

[Finchie40]

Is your wife a man?

[RavVid]

Try a woman is my suggestion

[SleepingHazard]

Quite a weird read. Is your wife a man?

[Anonymous]

Choose the wrong troll account?

[Jmmmfi4]

What do you mean he?