How to change your view about a guy when God says "no"?

[Anonymous]

I feel foolish and I ask God that he gives me eyes for eternal things instead of what my flesh wants. I'm married. Unfortunately i fell for a younger guy. We never did anything but we would look for each other. "Noah" recently went through a break up but he never mentioned her until i saw him tell someone online. I really liked him but I know God is saying "no" for obvious reasons. I repented for not valuing my husband and that God changes my heart to commit to God and my husband. I also asked that he helps me see "Noah" as my brother in Christ instead. Any help on how to help me view "Noah" differently?

[strateguy632]

View him as "your temptation " to overcome. Or get divorced if you are not catholic?

[SmokinAces2000]

Maybe don’t have feelings for another guy while you’re married or just get a divorce. God has nothing to do with it.

[itsannalee]

Change the God

[jahaims]

You're mental