Do you believe that its impossible to be happy if you short circuit the dating system?

[jennifer_bloom]

What I mean is that a man will often share his resources or abilities with his partner, but the woman should choose the man first, not the resources and talents first. Some people have greedily eyed the man’s money, before even testing his personality to see if he is an acceptable personality match. They have short circuited the system and the consequence of that is misery and conflict.

I know 3 women who were not religious and went to church or bible study to meet wealthy religious men, and all 3 girls were chased out of there by predators who targeted them for selfish reasons. You cannot build a house on a fake foundation. The home you build on lies will collapse and cause you injury.

This is not my idea. This is what Jesus taught.

[KateCrombie]

I agree with you…. The person matters and not his money or status