The bible says if you reject good advice, your toil will enrich another man's house when your body and flesh is spent, thoughts?

[jennifer_bloom]

The bible says the house represents your mind, so I always thought this verse meant that other people would learn from your mistakes while you would continue clueless and blind to the reasons your life has the types of problems it does.

My second uncle married a very elite, and beautiful woman who did not appreciate any man and used them all for money and looks, and then she left him for a con men who claimed to be richer then her husband. When she realized the man was a con artist and not a law abiding worker, it was too late to marry my uncle again because she had already divorced my uncle, and abandoned their child to do it.

My uncle dated lots of women over many decades trying to find a second wife to replace his first one, and it was due to peer pressure by family who wanted him to remarry. Eventually he got so sick of dating around, he just married the first option he had after yet another break up and since he settled instead of vetting his option, he ended up with a horrible person who was so selfish she took the money her family gave him for medical treatment and used it to buy luxuries, letting her husband die due to not having money for medical bills.

I just think that I considered settling on a normal job option because I was tired of abandoning imperfect ideas and trying to come up with a better job idea to earn money with.

But my uncle settled and it ruined his life.

So I will not settle. No matter how much time I seem to be wasting trying to choose the best option over and over again out of other new options.

[BADGER44]

good to keep in mind... im sure plenty women. were out there for that. and those were probly the ones. that stayed away from me... thats probly. the only good thing i was good at. turning women off before they tried that... had one who stole from me. i was working so many hrs in summer no time get money to bank. id hide it she found it. i have no idea how much i had. probly $1000. or more. there was couple hundred left. freezer bad spot to hide it... was good til her... she was. good and bad. she stole my money then would spend it on hotel rooms and expensive food and drinks when i didn't ask for it. ski lodges. hot tub hotels. nurses. I've dated them. at least they were all drugies. and thieves i dated.. plenty of sex though... at least i got her phone card. those were the days phone calls cost a ton. like 150 to 200 a week to call people. i was traviling the country. for jobs. and not with her used it for 2 years almost... I've seen friends get screwed like your uncle... me mostly just broken heart... say. when my fatrher passed away and we got our inheritance. i was really pissed at the broker. really mad what he said to me and not to my sisters who got same amount i got... that id have women wanting me now... no trouble getting women... i really haited that kind of thinking. why didn't he say it to my sisters. and they were rt there and heard it... im thinking how the hell is any woman going to know i have money... they sure aren't going get it from me.. i wanted a woman to want me. and never for my money... old girlfriend did come by. she was my criptinite. 3 times... she tried to ruin it with my presend girlfriend at the time... luckily. my new girlfriend cared about me. and listened to me. that other one was a mistake and simply. was my criptinite... rule on that. if a woman is abused by her father her whole life. and she haites men as her mom haites men. just stay away. you can't change their thinking... im sure plenty of women arenot interested in me cause i didn't have the job they liked me to have nor the car nor the place of living nor clothes. i never show off. i go the other way completly. their all loss. cause i ve done ok. for my self. grew that into millions. and women still reject me... cause most out there are for that and not for me. a regular fun dude... they go for the shinny pennies... i dont call it settling. nor to say settle... but go for someone you can trust... that was always biggest in my book. plenty of fun girls i had fun with but didn't trust them... im not talking about cheating. i never minded if they did that. just dont lie about it... had one lie. never a reason to lie... hope this helps someone. have a good day...

[Snowman84]

That proverb is a gross generalization.
You as an individual need to make your own choices in life based on the best information you have available.
Not feelings
Not from some grifter pastor
But from evidence and what you believe is best.
Christians believe that God will guide them through everything in life, and then provide everything like some celestial Santa.


I don’t buy into this nonsense

[Tigress1039]

Don’t understand ur question

[queenofcardio]

I've never heard of this. It's confusing