How quickly have you been tested on keeping your belief or new boundaries?

I had Bible study tonight and the lesson was to guard your heart because people can hurt and disappoint you. They can involve you in their sin and the devil uses temptations, those things you desire or your debating to have you fight yourself.
Afterwards, I ask God for help in this area because I feel like im struggling.

Well last year I went to this festival under the thought of just eating food and this special kind of "autumn" cake, but this cake was in remembrance of another god. Once I found out this info I decided not to go again
Although I enjoyed it, there are plenty of other festivals i can go to without other gods underneath.
Now i shared pictures with my ex last year of me at the festival but I deleted stuff so I dont know if I told him everything , but i did mention other festivals
All I see is that I changed status afterwards and we didn't talk for a couple of weeks.

Now the festival is coming up again and I talked about festivals i did want to go to weeks prior and this was not on the list, but he just texted me if I wanted to go to the festival I rejected.
Of course I said no, but that was quick
All this was unprovoked. I didn't ask him to go anywhere
How quickly have you been tested on keeping your belief or new boundaries?
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