Search Results: ask her out now or wait

Why would people in workplace flirt/pushing people into a relationship?

these type of things keep happening to me. Okay here s what happened: i ve been working in this company for around a year. When i first got here there s a guy (i would call him A) in finance department, a manager, and the...

Jojojojojojojo

Xper 6 Age: 28

How long should I wait to ask him for more time together?

We've known each other 7 months, been talking 3 months, officially dating 1.5 months. For the past 2.5 months, I've been going over and staying the night one day of the week at his place (he lives an hour away). Sometimes...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I blanked out and froze in front of my crush (adhd person). Is he done with me?

To give context I got a job and met a cute coworker. We've talked once and there was minor flirting. We didn't see each other in a while and one day he came rushing up asking when I get off work. I told him and he said ok...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Guys, Why are people asking what's OK?

Our president has severe dementia. Criminals are repeatedly being released on the streets. America is 35 trillion in debt. Trump is on trial, but not any Bidens. We are hemorrhaging money to Ukraine. The national guard is...

ApplePie409

Xper 6 Age: 33

Am I asking for too much?

He would come over every day and sex was great and he was always so nice and kind however 8 months later He spends time with me most weekdays but all we do is sit and do work. He’s doing a masters program and I’m in...

heybay22

Xper 5 Age: 30

Should I break up or is there something worth saving?

He would come over every day and sex was great. But things changed He spends time with me most weekdays but all we do is sit and do work/homework I’ve told him I feel a little distant only for him to say he’s with me all...

heybay22

Xper 5 Age: 30

What is going on here?

I am perplexed. I have been trading glances with a young lady at work now for about 8 months. She is quite a bit younger than me. I am 37 and she is 23. I feel we have some connection. She takes every opportunity to make...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I like a guy, he likes me back, but he isn't ready for a relationship?

I'm gonna sound like a bitch in this. Basically, I'm talking to a guy, we'll call him Cameron, we both like each other, and I told him that I loved him, he said he does too, he just isn't ready for a relationship. He...

Anonymous

(18-24)

A girl I met in person seemed incredibly receptive of me at first, but she is now ignoring all of my texts for no reason. How come?

I met this girl while I was on a holiday in Hong Kong, she is a Chinese university student. We met on board a ferry, went to a ferris wheel together, and walked around for a while before she had to catch a train back to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I send her message or wait?

So i been talking with this girl online from other country. She is really beautiful and either she is not very big texter or something because she usually write not that much and i been planning to go visit her and she...

ovixs90

Xper 6 Age: 35

Does this count as a confession or not?

Today, I finished my class little late and when i came downstairs, my friends ran towards me shouting"HE LIKES YOU BACKKKK" I was confused a lot. And actually, it turned out that one of my friend told my crush's friend...

Anonymous

(Under 18)

Would a woman use music to send a guy a message?

So I was bored and asked this chick I knew if she wanted to hang out and she was like "yes I'm so bored" and so I got ready and headed toward her which was over an hour away. I got there and waited for her to come out...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How long should I wait to contact to apologize and gain trust?

I broke my ex boyfriends trust and I want to gain it back. He told me he doesn't trust me right now, trust is earned, actions speak louder than words and that he needs some space. Also he was asking how he knows my...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it possible for someone to fall in love even without knowing it?

For context, I think my guy friend is falling in love with me but doesn't seem to know it. I just took the hint more seriously right now because he is asking for emotional support from me when he underwent an operation...

Ofoceans

Xper 4 Age: 35

Are we having an emotional affair?

A close guy friend has been codependent for about five months now with me. He keeps on wanting to know how i am and finds other ways to contact me if I deactivate my fb. Sometimes if I reactivate, he welcomes me back on...

Ofoceansbeaches

Xper 5 Age: 32

Confused about my sex life ?

So I am 22 years old Indian male , I had a bad relationship 4 years ago , my girlfriend left me so I don't have much experience with intimacy, I had just makeout with my ex 2-3 times... she was the only girl I was ever...

justguy338

Xper 1 Age: 24

Im not sure what to do 100%?

i like a female friend at college who i have known for a few months. The problem is i never really talked to her that much when hanging out in the group but i did a few times and she's looked at me and stuff. So i reckon...

Gluggerz

Xper 1 Age: 19

Am I being ghosted? Did he lose interest?

I (30F) met this guy (34M) a month ago on Raya. We’ve been virtually getting to know each other because he lives in Indianapolis and I live in Atlanta, but it’s been great. So great that he booked a flight to come see me...

Anonymous

(30-35)