I blanked out and froze in front of my crush (adhd person). Is he done with me?

[Anonymous]

To give context I got a job and met a cute coworker. We've talked once and there was minor flirting. We didn't see each other in a while and one day he came rushing up asking when I get off work. I told him and he said ok and was about to run back to work when I stopped him and asked him his hours. Then I asked him his name.

This is where things got weird. I completely froze in place and my mind went somewhere else. He told me his name and I said I liked his name and put my hand on my chest to show sincerity. But them as he looked on, as soon as I said that, out of nowhere I froze in position and couldn't think anymore. It felt like half of me faded away. My mind was not present to think for a few seconds. It's like he stood there and waited and watched me and then said yeah... ok. and then turned to leave. Then my mind came back as if it came forward and I was able to move and think and talk again. I said he could meet me at X place at X time and he kept his back turned to me and said alright will do then ran off to finish his work (he had stopped doing his job to talk to me).

Do you think he was being polite and will never talk to me again because he saw me literally zone out and freeze in front of him (it went on for about 7 Seconds) or do you think he was being honest and I'll actually heard from him again? Also what do you think happened to me? I've been suspecting I have ADHD for years now and it runs in the family. Could that be it? Please let me know. I really am interested in this guy but I think when I had an "episode" right in front of him (and I'm sure he noticed), I blew my chances. Also should I pull him aside and explain I zoned out to see if he'll let it pass or just wait to see if he ever meets up with me after work? So far, it's been a day and I haven't seen him. Thanks in advance.

[RingOfFire]

Hard to tell what is going on in his mind but it wouldn't stop me from being with someone I was interested in. It might have just been stress on your part that caused you to freeze. You may have been stressed out about meeting him like that. On the other hand it sounds like pretty specific symptoms so I would recommend talking to a doctor about it.

As far as the guy, you just have to wait and see. Like I said, if I like someone it wouldn't stop me from wanting to know more about her. In fact it may make me more curious about her.

[bobby_bush_eater]

You're overreacting it sounds like he probably likes you. Just take it easy and be honest with him but you definitely didn't blow your chance

[Roxy0050]

Relax. Hopefully you have seen him again and are past this, but if not, just try and be chill and don't feel too awkward for those 7 seconds. A big perspective, if he is worth liking he will put up with a 7 second moment of weirdness. If he can't deal with that, you didn't have much chance of him dealing with other ups and downs in relationship so he is not worth getting too stressed about.

[Makeushiver]

I doubt it. You can likely turn this to your advantage by approaching him and apologizing. If you tell him something specific, e. g. Your eyes" were so striking I completely forgot that I meant to say" that could help your case. Male it quick and leave next move to him.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

Your actions (or lack of 'em, actually) revealed to him that you have a crush on him.

He probably found that cute.

Now, you've got him thinkin' about you.

[ProbablyClueless]

I'm sure you'll be fine. The occasional, mildly awkward interaction isn't going to be that big of a deal in a situation like that.

[LaurenM1997]

He likes you but you need to take your time with relationship and not rush into stuff

[Anonymous]

I have done something very similar to a girl I have a crush on her. My mind goes crazy anytime I see her.

[elaphe]

I would forget about the past and just focus on your future interactions with him.

[AngryCarl]

It sounds like a low level anxiety attack. I've had the same thing in social situations. You might have freaked him out.

[spartan55]

Just pretend like it never happened.

[DarkWinterNights]

This. If he ever asks, and he probably wouldn’t. Just say you had a lot going on and were distracted.

[Anonymous]

No he wants you

[Asker]

Thanks for your reply. What makes you think so?

[Opinion Owner]

you’ll find out very soon