Online dating - Wait for her?

[Anonymous]

Hello!

Matched with a girl a week ago, and we start chatting. Found us a similar interests and the flow was there.

After day two, i suggested to hang out for a cup of coffee. But she wanted to know me more, and she likes to take "things slow". In her bio it says she's "looking for a relationship".

Now on day 3-4, she have slown down on the frequency to respond. I mean, everyone suggest to ask out after 2-3day of contact, otherwise they'll got bored and find others, which girls absolutely have no probs on online dating.

Today, she ghosted me.

What's even with girls on online dating nowadays? What do you guys want?

[slatyb]

She's a waste of time. Chatting before meeting is a waste of time. People who are seriously looking are willing to meet.

[BonzoInBitburg]

Learn to talk to girls in real life without being creepy. Nobody does that anymore so you'll have zero competition

[Asker]

Cold approaches are kinda creepy/weird too tho.
1. You dont know if she's single.
2. She might want to just be alone
3. In some countries, there's got a law mostly as "Public Nuisance".
If you're in a public place act abnormal and enough people find it disturbing, you could be turned away by an officer.

[BonzoInBitburg]

You can cold approach without being creepy. It's not hard at all. It's a learned skill. You'll be shocked at who you'll date and so will your friends. But you can stick to your plan and keep getting the same outcome

[CriticalCatDad]

Don't bother you'll be dissapointed

[CriticalCatDad]

All of the girls I've been with in the past who I met online and met in person ended up cheating on me

[CriticalCatDad]

So unless you have a cuck fettish, my advice is don't bother

[Asker]

a lot of girls online dating are lazy picky f.. ks, who only goes for 5-10%.

But some are actually some decent humans beings, who you could have a fun and genuine conversation and to just hang out with. No pressure, just casual hangout on a coffee and laugh at eachother.

But i start to doubt that too now, hence my post.

[CriticalCatDad]

Yeah, sure. Casual hang out. Sounds great. Not risky at all. Go for it

[Asker]

Risky?

[CriticalCatDad]

Come back once you've experienced being falsely accused and unable to prove you didn't do anything wrong. This is why I don't have any female friends.

[Asker]

I don't get your point, sorry.
Evaluate?

[Asker]

You can't take ever girl on one grab, I still doubt every single girl is false.. I hope.

[CriticalCatDad]

Not worth explaining to brain dead people who haven't experienced real life yet

[Asker]

So in short, you implying that I should assume that everything a girl say is a lie?

Damn..

[CriticalCatDad]

That's been my experience. My goal is to get to men before they end up hateful like me but hey if they don't want to believe me they'll figure it out themselves

[Asker]

Okay, thanks for heads up anyway.