2 mo

Online Dating - Love Scam?

Unycorn
Hi,

on a Dating App someone wrote me.

He is retired and lives in the States. He says He will buy us a big house in Germany and we never met again. He says that I am his woman and won't look at other women again. And he don't want me to be on the app again.

We have every day video chats via a Messenger with a green logo.

He moves and went around. His speech is good English. But it is strange that he says that he wants me, because we never met. We chat since this week - what is not a long time. He says I can come over. I told him that he should come over first. I don't want to buy a ticket for a flight to a man I have never seen in real life.

So he told me that he will come over in April. Retired US Soldiers can travel cheaper but have to wait to get a ticket.

This is all subject to the proviso that I have understood everything correctly

I find all this very unusual and to say you want to spend the rest of your life with a woman you've never seen is also unusual.

How do I find out what's behind it? Is it a love scam? Even though we've had a few video calls?
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2 mo
Ok, Chatting via video is wonderful. I hope it's not just a castle in the air. He's not pretty but I think if he's as he presents himself, he's a wonderful person and a perfect husband. I have suffered so much through abuse and it would be nice to finally find the one man with whom a future together is possible. Time will show
Online Dating - Love Scam?
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