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I have a huge crush on a guy and we get on well. We always make strong eye contact and most mornings he says good morning to me first. I sometimes catch him staring at me.

This morning, I noticed that he has more or less shaved his beard off.

I complimented him and said it looks nice. He said “thank you” but then kept saying he didn’t like it, his mum doesn’t like it etc. as if to seek constant reassurance. He said that he’d said to his mum “I am half of you so I have your looks”.

I said that I’m glad I don’t have my dad’s nose because it’s a beak. I then said I have my mums eyes.

He said “you’re blessed then”

Was he subtly complimenting my looks? Does he think I’m attractive? What did he mean?

Personally I don't think it is, but what do you think? Do you do this with attractive people?

I just admire the good looks, charm, and masculinity. I am very genuine about it, and I think many people even like to talk about it, so people appreciate talking to me, but I do think some people like my sister find this obsessive and unhealthy. I don't know if it's because she is my sister.

Which would be the better option if you were approaching 40 and want to just start a family asap.

you have a part time job online and No time to meet others to get to know them, you have to just jump now or lose your only chance

None of these are ideal of course but that’s life we have to work with what we get.

which is the better option?

Person 1: is attractive, tall (182cm), fit, lives with his mom, poor, trying to find a job but doesn’t have one yet. He feels depressed and has anxiety because can’t find a job and doesn’t know how to get out of that situation fast. He wants a family but feels he can’t because of his situation.

Person 2: not so attractive but not super ugly, he’s overweight with big stomach, short (175cm) not rich but has his own flat, has a job, has mouth herpes, (you will have it too if you choose this one) and if you have children with this person likely your children will have it too he said. This person is not depressed but feels pressure and sadness that he has not found a partner yet to build a family.

if you’re a man imagine it was your situation it as if they are the women and you have to choose.

One is attractive, in face and body but poor and depressed about it.

the other one is not so attractive, overweight, has a job, own flat but has mouth herpes.

which would you choose if you just had no more time to meet others.

Our interactions started off with him staring and smiling at me. I’d smile back but quickly look away because I’m shy.

Id notice him look at me from across the room and we would glance at each other a few times.

When I took the plunge and made the first move by saying hi, he smiled even more but then ignored me for a couple of weeks.

He went back to staring at me, smiling and saying hi.

When we had our first proper conversation, he seemed quite fidgety and we spoke for a good 10 minutes. He was holding eye contact and smiling the whole time.

Now, we say hi to each other every day. He will walk past me to leave the room, and I will look up and catch him looking at me. As soon as I look at him, he smiles and says hi.

We had a long conversation earlier. His eyes looked down my body and he said ‘you look like you’re going to the gym’, and for most of the conversation we were staring into each others eyes.