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So my girlfriend of almost four years (live together) has always talked about her teenage crush (how she liked his personality, loved hanging out with him, his physical traits and etcetera), they never did anything physical that I know of (kind of untouched chemistry the way she talks about him), they've been friends on FB, Snapchat and Instagram since I met her but they weren't talking until early December of last year. here's the start of my issue, there was secrecy behind it. How I know was during December my phone broke and I had borrowed her spar phone and went on a family trip for a week to go Christmas shopping (while she was at uni studying for exams) and I didn't have the money to fix my phone and shop for presents. I got multiple all cap texts popped up from her best friend basically saying "OMG _____ MESSAGED YOU?". I talked to my sister about it and he said I should respect her privacy but talk to her about it and I did. When I asked her about it and why she was so excited about it and all, I asked what he said and she said he basically just said hi (which I found suspect) so I asked if I could see the message and she said she deleted it because she was scared. Last week she said told me after she went out with her friend in the story at the bar that he messaged her and asked to if she wanted to hangout, she said "obviously I'm not going to but what do you think" I was a little awkward but I told her like it to her but please handle it respectfully. She was acting weird all night after that and I couldn't get it out of my head why for days until I went through her phone and found this

I don't like or find her response respectful. It seems like she gave him a the right away on a night I'm busy. She knows I would never be okay with her going out with another guy and I feel like she completely entertained it. I know I'm wrong, should I feel this way and what should I do? I kinda feel cheated on already. What should I do?

This girl I kinda like asked if I’d get her a salad from a pizza place and bring it to her at her work. We aren’t in a relationship but I did take her and her friend shopping the previous week and spent $1,500 on both of them thinking it would be just me and her going out on a date because she said she wanted to go to Dairy Queen and the outlet shops. Didn’t end up going to Dairy Queen though… She hasn’t done anything for me though. She claims to be broke. And she’s allergic to my cat so she can’t come over… She was kinda rude earlier too when I asked if she got her full hours at work back because they cut her hours after hiring a new girl but she said she worked a full 8 hour shift. she said…
“what day is it?”
“4/20”
“I work at a smoke shop”
I didn’t realize it was 4/20/23 until after I had already asked if she had gotten her hours back, and the new employee they hired is still in training so doesn’t know how to open or close the store and can’t use the safe at their workplace yet.

So I figured this girl didn’t deserve to have me bring her food no matter how much I like her. I still feel bad for not doing it though. I did have to get up early the next day for work and planned on going to bed early which I did.