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I must say I am not sure how much drunk he actually was. He wasn't completely wasted but he definitely had some beers and maybe some other alcohol. I myself wasn't drunk, I only had two vodka shots.

What I'm wondering about is whether he did find me attractive prior to this party of ours where the kiss and touching happened? Or how else does the drunkeness work? Do "moderately drunk" guys kiss just ANY girl? There were other, also cute and pretty, girls around, why did he go after me instead of one of them? He complimented me, specifically my hair, here and there kept his arm around me and when I was saying goodbye I could just feel he was up to something with that cheeky grin of his so I had tried to just kiss his cheeks and then leave, but he swiftly pulled me to him and kissed me (no tongue, just a proper smooch but no tiny peck either).

Then he promised jokingly he's gonna wreck me in the gym once he comes back 😅

I'm not interested in him, he is married I think, he's cute even tho he's older (was quite handsome when younger not gonna lie).

I think he may like me or at least find me attractive because I just realized he kept teasing in his own special style pretty much every training session of his.

29F, have been told I’m pretty/attractive, have a younger face which is how I could be deemed as cute instead. When I tell you I’ve never been approached by a guy I’d actually want to date, I get attention from guys in person but it’s usually the questionable ones. I’ve been told on and off in the past that a guy I found attractive would look at me/found me attractive but never did anything about it (I’m too shy to also). I don’t have any in person friends as I work remote & sadly only rely on dating apps. The guys I match with I find attractive but not sure if I’m just unlucky (likely the case) or it’s dating apps as a whole but for some reason it doesn’t work out for a multitude of reasons. If those guys actually noticed me in person I would feel a little bit more secure. My thing is I’m pretty old in my opinion, as most people my age are married & have kids. I only have a str under my belt from a few years ago when I was in my early twenties & have been single since. I have this mindset that if I was actually attractive, I would’ve had quality guys lined up by now. Since that str, I’m very selective & am even quicker to stop something in its tracks if the guy does something that turns me off/isn’t what I’m fully looking for. I think dating has treated me very unfairly as “pretty girls” don’t deal with this, unless I’m missing something. And I’ll add this even though it shouldn’t matter that much in the very early talking stages: I don’t care about sex much at all, maybe overthinking it but unsure if that vibe is picked up on being so reserved.

TLDR: would you also think you’re unattractive if you’re almost thirty & don’t ever get attention from guys you’d actually consider dating?