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Search Results: being one of the guys
What is this modern dating pool?
I have to be honest. I’m scrolling through Tinder and Hinge right now, and I can’t believe like 98% of these people exist. Even otherwise attractive girls, ruining themselves with awful piercings and excessive tattoos....
Anonymous
(30-35) Girls, are combat boots on a guy attractive? Or should I wear something more casual to first dates?
I’ve always been one to wear black boots on a first date, such as my Rocky 1950’s, or black smooth Timberlands, but was wondering if something more casual would be less intimidating. Girls, are black boots like the...
Anonymous
(36-45) 
How Can I Be Seen as Attractive in Some Situations, but Ignored in Others — Especially at Work?
I’ve noticed a confusing pattern in my social interactions. On one hand, I regularly receive clear signals that I’m considered attractive. Women sometimes approach me first, ask for my number, or compliment my appearance,...
Anonymous
(36-45) Unbalance in how much time you spend together?
I have had a few serious relationships in the past, unfortunately one on them got mental, the other developed an addiction after something devestating happened in his life to help get him through. Both these guys came...
Noredcarpet
Xper 5 Age: 46 Should I give old college female friends the coldest shoulder when they get married?
I’m 28 (M) now and single. My reasons for not dating are irrelevant. But I do still feel like when I talk to ladies, here and there flirty energy sort of just happens (I don’t intend for this, and I try to bury it or...
GeorgePulchri
Xper 2 Age: 30 My boyfriend talks about my ex while we are being intimate?
me and my boyfriend dated for 4 months like 2 years ago then broke up dated other peopel and got back together, We've been together for 8 months now I dated one guy within those times we were broken up So about me I only...
Anonymous
(18-24) How to block an anonymous bully from commenting my posts just because I said that men are able to produce/give life when they are old?
So basically, as far as I can remember, this anonymous female troll has been stalking and bullying me, possibly because she was upset that, in one of my posts, I made a question post about how men can give/produce life...
melssvdv
Xper 4 Age: 22 What To Do About Our Friendship?
I have been friends with a guy friend for about a year now as we met in grad school. We got closer as time went along and he event told me how he wanted me to be a part of his journey. It was so nice as we got closer and...
Anonymous
(30-35) How can people be like this?
Long story short, I had an ex [LDR] with whom I stayed 8 months for. Well the relationship was going very good for the first months. Then slowly I started recognising a toxicity pattern. Like DARVO , Gaslighting ,...
Alxve
Xper 4 Age: 19 Is it normal for a guy to hate feet? I thought most guys were into feet?
I've been with my boyfriend about four months, and it's going really well; we met at a work mixer, we work at the same company but in different sections. I really enjoy spending time with him, he's so sweet and...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is "Avoidant Mentality" fake justification for poor behavior?
I was researching a little in response to a different question about folks who "flake" or "ghost" or whatever you want to call the hot-and-cold game some folks like to play. I've always dismissed it as "this guy's a jerk"...
Would you consider this monkey branching or a form of cheating?
So I left this ex.. but I wanted to know if I was cheated on. So my ex was verbally abusive and other manipulation tactics. Here at the end of the relationship. She made a guy friend. Which I was first chill about...
Alxve
Xper 4 Age: 19 Was she trying to friend zone me?
So I meet a girl at work and we're cool. One day I posted on Snapchat about having a crush on her. It was indirect but it clearly was about her. She swiped up and said something like "you crushing?". I confirmed but I...
Anonymous
(18-24) Am I being petty by holding a grudge against this guy?
I joined the wrestling team my freshman year of high-school. I made it maybe two practices. These two other guys on the team I didn't know (I knew them, but we never really spoke) kept walking by me and slapping my ass,...
Nicholas1302
Xper 5 Age: 32 Guys, Have you ever told a gal that SHE is out of your league?
Funny little convo today with someone who is insanely successful, seemingly social, but has some kind of self-esteem issue. He claimed that *I* was out of his league. I didn't understand what he meant. I actually...
Guys, Why do men feel entitled to a woman’s body and other sexual acts from a woman?
Not saying all men, but obviously a vast majority of them if the question is being asked. one. I’ll start with is blow jobs, men expect it. If they aren’t given it then they are upset, feel “unloved” not “cared for” not...
Anonymous
(18-24) Did he not like me? what’s going on?
This was several months ago now. I had a classmate from my cohort. An international student from Europe. Our career path is very female dominated, so he's one of the only guys in the class. He's also one of the only good...
Anonymous
(25-29) Crush on an older guy — are these signs he might like me back?
I have a crush on an older guy in one of my classes, and I’m trying to figure out if he might like me back. He’s a little shy and awkward, but some of his behavior has been making me wonder. Whenever we talk, we have...
forestfairystix
Xper 1 Age: 24 Would my ex (now talking stage) be mad about me and another guy?
so my ex and i are talking again and i lied about being experienced.. and my guy friend and i who are pretty close would say sexual stuff towards eachother but i only meant it as a joking way but he was very serious, and...
Anonymous
(Under 18) Should I shoot my shot?
So there’s this one woman who lives in my building.. she’s average looking but has a great smile. What I like most, is that she’s a GILF.. she has a daughter who has a daughter, so it’s kinda wild I never liked someone...
Anonymous
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