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I was dating someone for 3 months and things were going great but he didn't like that I'm agnostic and practice no religion whatsoever.

He wanted a young girl, virgin, Catholic with good morals, family oriented, in college and love kids. I had practically all he wanted except the Catholic part. He said without practicing any religion then nothing is really keeping me to have good morals or stay faithful. He just couldn't accept it and dumped me. I went from ''you're a rare gem'' to ''I can't date you anymore''.

I don't understand. I believe in the old traditional love (not the stupid modern business transaction of getting an incentive), staying faithful but just don't go to church. Do you really need church and believing in good to have good morals?

If it was between these three, which would be worse:

- Using someone for sex but dump them after getting it, then ghosting and blocking them... leaving the person heartbroken, esp if it was their first time.

- Using someone for money and if they are ever broken, you dump and ghost them, leaving them heartbroken. The person thought it was a serious relationship.

- Not just having sex (they can get money too) but faking the entire relationship and faking a future with them; make them believe you'll have kids with them, go on vacation trips, make promises... only to find out everything was a LIE. It was control and manipulation. They scam many people.

My co-worker's grandparents are in their early 70's. When they met they were respectively 18 and 19 years old; got married in their early 20's and have 4 children and 2 grandchildren and 1 great-grandchild.

The old man is happy with his wife even though her beauty & youth has already long faded and both have wrinkles, along with grey hair. To him, she's still his gem. One of our fears is getting dumped or replaced for a younger woman. Once her beauty faded and she already gave you kids is a man like that rare?