How do I fix drama I didn’t cause but in the middle of?

[Anonymous]

Anyone have any good advice on how I can fix a situation that I was unwillingly dragged into? So the problem is that my gf’s best friend is pregnant and it was a secret but of course my girlfriend tells me everything. I’m really good at keeping things to myself so this wasn’t the first time she has told me her friends personal stuff. Mainly because I do not care And I hardly listen. Well now I’m getting blown up by her because apparently someone I associate with talked to someone and said they heard it from me even though I haven’t told anyone at all. It’s such a shit show that I’m being threatened to get dumped by my girlfriend and no matter what I say she won’t believe me. I confronted the individual that allegedly spread the info and they deny everything of course so Without proof I’m at a dead end. What can I do to get out of this?

[razelove]

Tell that woman to hit the road. She's untrustworthy and wants to take it out on you? Screw all that noise, how did it become your problem in the first place. Don't be their scape goat, tell them to go fuck themselves, find a new girlfriend, away from that circle jerk group of people.

You can "get out of it" by telling everyone to fuck off and leave you alone. That bitch is pregnant and needs to worry about her baby, not the rumor mill, likely who the father is with the whole "it's secret" part, she was wanting to frame another dude up. Your girlfriend isn't trustworthy, and values her friend more than you. How does her friend know she told you? Because your girlfriend told her as much, because all of them are nasty, gossipy creatures they assume you are the same.

Newsflash, if you stick around them, you will become the same. One of us, one of us. So fix it by telling them to fuck off, and that you don't care about their bullshit, it isn't your kid, you never asked your girlfriend to tell you about it, you don't know that guy, and the frame up is suspicious. It's a tenuous link, but one that could make you the whipping boy of the group, also a move that only works with your girlfriend going along with it. How else would he know that you know?

Leave her, leave their bullshit. There's a lot of strange things going on, all of them would cause me to smack a bitch. I'm a feminist, a bitch can be a man or woman and must be enthusiastically smacked as that's what bitches are for. Him, her, your girl, all bitches that need smacking. You too for putting up with it and running around along with that bs, you need some sense smacked into you.

[lightbulb27]

just tell the truth,
it's unfortunate someone talked, but so did you and apparently others talked as well.

tell her you are there for her and her friend, you want the best for them, etc..

realize girls hormones change, especially pregnant and add to it emotional chaos of the situation and you've got some touchy females.

hopefully it gets smoothed out in time.

you may have to evaluate if you can handle this female long term...

[saintsRow3]

Ghost all of them.
It would get you out of the situation plus if your sadistic You’d enjoy The thought of knowing How they accused you of something you didn’t do and now are relishing in that Thought of getting your revenge. For Sadistic people revenge can Be hilarious And feel Great.
So I’ve heard.

[DryGermanGuy]

Tell them you don't care AT ALL and stand your ground. Nothing you can really do here.

[Guy13]

Why don’t use simply stay out if you don’t like it. Makes no sense.