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Online Dating: Time waisters

So I am on a run again, and here we go....! People turn to online dating for a variety of reasons. They are lonely. They are recently single and want to see what else is out there. They have hear rumors and are curious...

DaveJord

Influencer Age: 49

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Are we dating? What do I do and say to him?

So there's this guy I've been seeing for the past month and a half, and we've known each other for a few months now because we worked together over the summer. Since we've been back at college we've been spending a lot of...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My fiancé hooked up with men for 2 years?

I (woman) just found out that my fiancé (man) hooked up with men in his late 20s. He was in college at the time and had never had a long-term relationship. He said he used to date a lot of women when he was younger, but...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I know I should just tell him the truth, but should I block him after?

Long story short, I have been friends with benefits with this man for 3 1/2 years. I’m not here to get slut shamed or basted by the insecure low self-esteem men on here that like to talk shit to women in my position I’m...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Is he being sarcastic, into me, or not actually into me?

Dude off app initially wanna hook up when I was vacay in his city. We didn’t meet. He asked if I would be down still. I agreed. Later be liking all my stories on IG. Then said he wanna be friends cuz I seem sweet. To me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why is my ex saying he doesn’t want to have sex with other girls because he doesn’t want to hurt me?

We broke up recently, we were together for 3 years and work together (I know, I know). And no I am not blocking him. I care about him but I am confused about his behaviour. We have managed to stay cordial so that we...

strawberrybaby3

Xper 6 Age: 36

Do you guys believe this garbage?

https://www.yourtango.com/entertainment/conservative-men-attracted-liberal-women-same-reason-attack-liberal-men https://nypost.com/2021/07/10/why-progressive-women-want-to-date-men-who-act-conservative The second one I...

KostasKouvalis

Master Age: 27

Should I unadd this guy?

Hi so me and this guy have been talking since like August 28th, and things have been going good I think. He responds very quickly and if he happens to leave me on delivered for an hour he always apologizes and tells me...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girl's Behavior

Girls will call me gorgeous, handsome, hot, out of their leauge, attractive etc but not date me or hook up. Why?

I don’t understand it. I know my question may seem vain but I’m a genuine, honest, funny and caring guy, I’m half black so maybe that’s why but at the end of the day I see their dating history and I’m think if they can...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Are we becoming an increasingly less forgiving society?

Nobody wants to be a door mat or a victim. But forgiveness isn’t necessarily about letting someone off the hook or just forgetting what happened. Its about letting go a past transgressions. There are also spiritual...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Nobody wants to be a door mat or a victim. But forgiveness isn’t necessarily about letting someone off the hook or just forgetting what happened. Its about letting go a past

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Is he trying to make me jealous?

I hooked up with a guyfriend that I’ve known for a while and I have a feeling that I’ve hurt his ego because I didn’t chase him after it happen. He’s very good looking, many Women must chase him.. but I don’t, because I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Friends with benefits having more than 1 girl ?

So I met this guy almost two weeks ago through social media, through DM first week we chatted a lot and had a lot in common, we instantly clicked in many ways. Well one night we decided to meet up midnight and as you know...

trustnoone77

Xper 4 Age: 42

She texts, makes phone calls daily... but is super nervous about setting up a coffee date after second week of talking. Why it's a relationship killer.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/_X6YXS8UB1M This My Take is written specifically in regards to people who connect online. This has nothing to do a people that you know in real life or had previous relationship with. I want...

DaveJord

Influencer Age: 49

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I can't love anymore?

I couldn't be with someone I really loved. I met him in 2017 and it was literally love at first sight. I understand it was attraction at first sight but it was so strong and so intense. The best part was that it was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating someone with depression?

My friend started talking to this guy who I thought at first was love bombing her, from the first day he would insist in calling all the time, he would send her dozens of texts if she wouldn’t reply, he would want to see...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Am I a cougar if I repeatedly get hit on by much younger men?

My issue is people often think I’m in my early thirties when I’m actually 45. I seem to be ageing well and have a youthful (but NOT immature) attitude. This seems to mean that I tend to get hit on by guys much younger...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Can y’all help me understand what may have happened? Blocked on Instagram?

An old high school crus reached out mentioning he’d be stopping in my town that I’ve moved to wanted to hang out. Spent the 3 weeks up to the trip keeping convo going. Didn’t think too much of it since we both got out of...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What do I make of his changed behavior?

Long story but 3 1/2 years ago, I stared having sex with this man I met through mutual friends in 2006. He always flirted back then but I wasn’t interested. We ran into each other now and then, but it was never nothing...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)