Is he being sarcastic, into me, or not actually into me?

[Anonymous]

Dude off app initially wanna hook up when I was vacay in his city. We didn’t meet. He asked if I would be down still. I agreed. Later be liking all my stories on IG. Then said he wanna be friends cuz I seem sweet. To me he seem like he was tryna impress me abit. But I take it LITERALLY when a guy say he wanna be friends. So I even encourage him to make new friends on another app😂 he’s like he’s just going with the flow to see what’s up or something. i can’t remember what he said that made me ask if he’s looking for friends in general or more than friends with me. Then he stopped replying. Came back couple weeks later and kept asking for one of my social media sayin he wanna know
Me in a personal way when he already has 2.. I declined cuz I don't know him. I don't know why he want it so bad cuz he asked again… and then I asked what he mean by personal.. he gave me ex like questions to know me.. I tease him that he’s interested in me.. all he said was “sure you can say that” like what? If someone likes you, they like you. If they just wanna be friends, let me friendzone you. If they wanna just hook up, let’s just be ONS. I’m so lost…..

[Mach40]

Ultimately, the best way to clarify his intentions is through open and
honest communication. If you're interested in getting to know him better
or understanding his feelings, consider having a straightforward
conversation with him about your own intentions and what you're looking
for in a relationship. This can create a platform for him to share his
thoughts and feelings as well. Clear and direct communication can help
both of you understand each other better and make more informed
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[spartan55]

You completely complicaated the situation by yourself.

[Asker]

Hahaahhahahahaa fml yes sir I did. I listen to that first advice from someone else here and draw the whole hook up line as just hook up vs getting to know me better = romantic …. And I made it awk cuz he told me he is actually interested in me & he sounded disappointed that I only wanna hook up in order for him to get to know me better 😭

[Anonymous]

pretty sure he just wanted sex. he's not interested romantically. he said friends because he wants friends with benefits or a one night stand.

[WhitneySnow]

He just wants to hook up but thinks he has to act like he really likes you likes you. At least that’s my opinion.

[sage2021]

Sounds like Ebonics to me...

[BarryLiverstone]

Not into you

[Asker]

So what does he want then

[BarryLiverstone]

He wants to you use when he’s horny

[Asker]

I mean it’s kind a waste to get to know me cuz we don’t even need to talk and just hook up when it’s convenient for us lol.

[BarryLiverstone]

Friends cuz you are sweet means he wants to stay in communication with you

[Asker]

Why does he seem to want my social media so much when he already has 2 of my other ones?

[BarryLiverstone]

More ways to see you and communicate

[Asker]

Why does he wanna stay in communication when we only need to talk when we hooked up… 😅😂 that’s so confusing me cuz it’s unnecessary

[BarryLiverstone]

Cuz he wants sex again.

[Asker]

So what should I say to his response? “Well if you just wanna stay as hook up buddies, it’s cool”?

[BarryLiverstone]

You have my answer. Ty

[BarryLiverstone]

Feel free to follow me if you want more help figuring him out