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I know I should just tell him the truth, but should I block him after?

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Long story short, I have been friends with benefits with this man for 3 1/2 years. I’m not here to get slut shamed or basted by the insecure low self-esteem men on here that like to talk shit to women in my position I’m here for opinions on the question only. Anyway, back to the question. In the first two years of us seeing each other, I try to break it off several times and he will blow my phone up. He’s been to my job before he will not accept it. He will get me in by telling me he has feelings for me blah blah blah bunch of bullshit. Over time, the sex got more like love making mixed with a little fun. We only hooked up twice a month. In June he started wanting to see me like two or three times a week. Mid August I had a car accident. For the first time he offered to help me fix my old car and get it running and took me to the junkyard to get my expensive car stereo equipment out of my wrecked car and he bought me food on both days. He also started texting me every single day. He would either text me good morning or around lunch asking how my day is so far or in the evening asking me how was my day. The last three days he has not text me. Then he texts yesterday saying “Are you still with us? Lol how are you doing?”. I don’t know when but that shit makes my blood boil. Like he’s acting like I’m the one that hasn’t been communicating. And I’m sorry I may sound like a bitch but he’s not my boyfriend so I don’t owe him a text every day. He took it upon himself to start texting me every day for a month then stop. At this point, I feel like he’s playing emotional games with me because he knows I love and care about him. He’s told me he loves me too but the thing is I feel like he’s seeing someone else and I’m ready to find someone I can be in a real relationship with.

I know I should just tell him the truth, but should I block him after?
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