Hi so me and this guy have been talking since like August 28th, and things have been going good I think. He responds very quickly and if he happens to leave me on delivered for an hour he always apologizes and tells me what happened. The problem is we live in different states I live in Florida and he lives in Connecticut. He has expressed to me how he doesn't want to catch feelings or get attached to me because I live too far away. I said that's fine even though deep down I wish it were different. Yesterday we were talking about what we would do if we were together and I said I would talk to you like get to know you more. This man says "I'll talk, then make out, and then hook up". To my surprise, I said "no" especially not on the first meet, (hooking up with people you just met is crazy to me). So he then says "We've been talking for a while now (not even a month has passed) and we'll only get one chance because then you'll go back to Florida and we won't be able to see each other." I was shocked, I kept telling him how that's way to quick for me (especially because I'm a v). So after some time the conversation dies down and I text him "goodnight" this is a regular thing we do we send each other good night and good morning texts, but unlike the usual he says just says "gn" the laziest way possible to reply. So appalled I leave him on delivered and go to bed. The next day I open the text and say just "gm" to match his energy since lazy is what we're doing now. It's been like an hour now and he has left me on open. I'm not dumb I know he's upset because I rejected his advances the night before but to completely change our dynamic because of it is very nasty. I don't know if I should give him another chance and speak my mind and tell him it was wrong. Or go completely ghost and block and remove him on everything, what do you guys think?
Should I unadd this guy?
