i’ve been dating this guy for almost 2 months. the last day we hung out he told me he wanted to be exclusive. the next day i found out he told his friends about me. i also already met his mom. he made me feel like i truly was the 1. however quickly after he canceled our next date. i was a bit upset about it because it was for going out to the bar with his friends when we already had plans together that day. he claims he tried to make it up to me by suggesting days he knew i had work which upset me more. afterwards i didn’t talk to him at all because he didn’t ask me what was wrong etc. i even overreacted and un added him on snap and instagram. i added him back quickly though. the following day he cancelled our next date again claiming work popped up. i gave him the benefit of the doubt that it was true so he asked me if i can see him the following day. i asked him if he wanted to continue things due to the fact that i wasn’t feeling the same vibes from him. he reassured me that he did so i felt a lot better. the literal next morning i texted him on snap saying that i have to move on if he’s going to consistently cancel on me because 3x cancellation in a single week is absurd. after he read this message i saw he immediately un added me on snap. i feel heartbroken because we were going on dates consistently 2-3x a week for almost 2 months straight. i don’t understand why the literal night before he would tell me he wants to continue things with me and then the next day un add me. is this him showing me he’s done with the relationship? does he just need time to think? will he add me back? should i add him back? is it to get back at me? how could all the quality time we spent together mean absolutely nothing to him? everything was going perfect as a fairytale until the last few days. i could tell i had him completely falling for me up until he cancelled for the bar. right after that it felt impossible to have any of his attention :(
You must have broke his heart or at least he still broken hearted. This is his way of coping with the reality the loss from the severed relationship. He must believe that despite the great times y’all may have had the split hurts him enough to move on to new cheese. In a perfect world everyone can split apart with a smile. Don’t know why the split happened, but at the end of the day if you two aren’t compatible it may just be harder for him to accept and by unadding you on Snap is a better way for him to accept the fact that you two won’t work. Most but not all guys don’t want to have girls as friends for many many reasons. I am slightly like this and understand where he is coming from a bit just from being a guy. I personally like having various friends and don’t care as much about little things like that but I will say it’s more logical for a man to spend time with one girl he really likes that will want a sexual relationship because (un) fortunately the guy gets sexual advances as opposed for doing this and that (being there and available, being acting shoulder, buying drinks, fighting other dudes,…) for an attractive friend only to be stuck in the friendzone with a crush who doesn’t like you that same way and wants to bang a guy who you think is a douchebag of complete loser lol my friends. The dynamics of being friends amoung men is sophisticated in how it’s not completely opposite (man and woman friendship) but there are huge differences having girls as friends. I also am quick to think most women don’t fancy the idea of their man even talking to another woman. Guys actually trust other guys more other than you think as long as you’re a cool a respectful guy “bros before hoes” is real. I have player ass friends I trust enough to not mess with a girl I’m into and they already know I’m the same way. Maybe he’s also taking a break from dating alone. Hopefully this helps!
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He probably met someone else. Dick move on his part either way.
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