Should I question him about this?

[Emz19]

This guy who I’m talking to keeps adding and unadding me on social media and it’s getting boring. I’m also getting upset about it. I seem to allow it because every time he re adds me, I add him back and I don’t question why he un added me before. He’s always doing this. Recently he hinted that he wanted a relationship and then a few weeks later, he un adds me again. I think he’s doing this for attention. Next time he adds me, do u think I should have him up on it and question him about it? It’s starting to get to me.

[andreasderjuengere]

I'd understand that someone who was not born in ''pre-online'' times won't understand it... let me try anyway:

Such 'symbolic' actions are totally irrelevant and meaningless in themselves. Why would one give attention to it? What counts is personal contacts and interaction - ''media'' only make this a little easier.

The actual purpose of ''adding'', ''following'',' 'sharing'' and other bullshit is to increase 'traffic' on a specific site so that the operator of this site can justify the payments from advertisers;

Whatever you decide to do about the ''issue'' you mention - no one gives a shit, actually.

Excuse my fecal language - it only reflects the 'fecal' details of internet :)

[Britchie]

This is very strange. He is either hiding you rmfrom someone or he is playing stupid games to get in your head

[Anonymous]

That’s annoying and pretty childish. I think you definitely should ask him about it.

[spartan55]

How old is this guy? He sounds like a moron, is he your best option?

[Emz19]

He's 24. It's difficult because it's him I want but I'm fed up of his mind games.

[spartan55]

Yeah, you want him? So then you can get his bullshit full time. 👍

[Anonymous]

Why even get caught up in it to begin with? They would be out of all parts of my life with the very FIRST unadd.

[Wise4myage]

Yes, definitely ask him why he does that, and make he knows how much bothers you.