I was ghosted by my situationship and then 5 days later he texted me again mad that I removed him off social media?

[Anonymous]

I have been in a situationship with this guy for almost 10 months now. He moved away for school and we still spoke but he took me for granted and really didn’t appreciate me. So I decided to tell him that we should stop talking because he does not appreciate me and I don’t trust him. He was really mean told me that he never wanted anything and that I was bringing him down. I answered very nicely and he never answered me. 4 days later I removed him off of all social media and he texted me on my number saying I was immature and he was disappointed. I answered and said what do u expect when you don’t answer during a serious convo. He said imagine unadding and blocking someone when you’ve been talking for that long. I answered by saying you completely ignored my text if you want to talk you can call me. He never replied he never called and ghosted me again. I just don’t understand why he would text me again just to not answer. Do you think he will reach out again should I reach out?

[bibibibixxx]

Yea i think he will most probably reach out again. But his behaviour is not so acceptable girlie. not because he didn't respond for few days but the way he talked to you during an argument and disrespected you by being mean and saying you were bringing him down. i genuienly dont see the point of u talking with him again based on the infos from this post, i could be wrong.

[Asker]

I agree with you but I just have an urge to call him and talk to him but I know I shouldn’t. I want him to reach out again so I can ghost him

[bibibibixxx]

hahaha that's funny, but also petty ngl. just let it go, move on. focus on yourself and some better things, no need to waste your energy on that honestly

[spartan55]

I didn't know you were supposed to appreciate and have serious conversations with your 'situationship' partner. These non relationship relationships are just plain stupid. I thought the whole premise was that all the drama was avoided. Yeah right.

[Asker]

I mean when he tells me he likes me and keeps me around for over 9 months yeah serious conversations are supposed to happen and no matter what situationship or not you have to respect and appreciate the person your talking to. I agree there stupid but he set himself up for it

[spartan55]

Why is that? He was the one who suggested it?

[spartan55]

So why no commitment then? It makes no sense. 'Keeping you around'? Why is is that significant? He didn't think enough of you to be in a relationship, that's what it comes down to.

[Asker]

I guess but he told me the main reason he didn’t put effort or date me is because he lives away during the year

[Asker]

I’m not sure honestly I can’t tell the way he feels every time we’d get super close he’d start to be really mean to me again. Do u think I should reach out?

[spartan55]

Okay, so...1) why are treating it like a normal committed relationship? 2) why would sign up for it when he told you how he felt?
Sounds like you wanted to change the relationship and he sounds like an immature moron.

[spartan55]

Why would you reach out? So you can treated with disrespect some more? Have some dignity ffs.

[Asker]

I’m a simp Smh do u think he’ll text me?

[spartan55]

I don't know, like I said have some self respect.

[spartan55]

The only reason you want him to reach out is so you can ghost him? Grow up geez.