So I met this guy almost two weeks ago through social media, through DM first week we chatted a lot and had a lot in common, we instantly clicked in many ways. Well one night we decided to meet up midnight and as you know we ended up having Sex. Well after that night a few days later he text me when was I available to see me again. We planned a day and Well the second time he invited to you chill with him and his friends. We chilled and had a few drinks all night, when we were alone I asked if he was dating and he said no that he had another friends with benefits but maybe sees her every two weeks it’s just sex. I told him off the bat that I’m really not a hook up type that I like relationships instead. Well the night ended and he came over to my place had sex again and after I said do you want me to drop you off with your friends he said no that he wanted to stay with me and started cuddling with me and me being a smart ass I said friends with benefits don’t cuddle plus do you do this with your other chick and he said well I feel comfortable with you and no I don’t stay at other ppls house. Well we woke up in the morning he started caressing me. He would be someone I can see myself dating but I know it’s only two weeks in and I don’t want to hurt myself.
I know it’s too soon to tell but can a guy have feelings for two different girls he’s sleeping with?
I know it’s too soon to tell but can a guy have feelings for two different girls he’s sleeping with?
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"I told him off the bat that I'm not really a hookup type"
You realize you said this AFTER you fucked him the very first time you met, right? I hope you understand that no guy will take you seriously acting like that.
Yes I do know. I was weak with him. Lol
That's fine, and there's really no harm that you did. But when you follow it up with the 'not the hookup type' that guy is thinking... "Ha yeah right". My buddies and I used to make fun of girls who did that. "I never do this" "I'm not that type of girl" .. 😂 😂 😂 😂
You really shouldn't be in a friends with benefits situation.
Yeah. It's possible. It's why polygamous relationships exist. Some people seem to be predisposed towards it while others are predisposed towards monogamous relationships.