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Search Results: pursuing him
Should a guy who so far overcame all the difficulties alone , avoid pursuing relationships?
No one was there when I just ate once a day. Went to sleep. crying or waking up crying due to the horrible. situation i was. I know I am a guy ane nobody givea a crap. I am not blaming anyone "for not being there", I just...
Anonymous
(25-29) Does your destiny change if it was stolen from you?
A bunch of fake Christians in university fed me with lies that damaged my decision making skills so that I never achieved my dream of becoming a psychologist, which is what I originally went to school for. I switched to...
Judge orders the release of Alfredo Garcia. Do you think he's a flight risk?
The judge doesn't think he's a flight risk. 😭 Why would an upstanding guy like alfredo who's facing prison and deportation be a flight risk? We know he doesn't like his home country of el salvador, because the gangs down...
kavakava
Xper 1 Age: 30 How can I meet someone for a serious relationship at 45 when new to the area?
I’m 45, never been married, no kids. It’s not that I’ve been the type that’s promiscuous or a player, it’s just what I had to deal with in my life that left me single. In my early 20s, my father’s health started to...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Do you believe in the right person at the wrong time?
I met this guy 4 years ago whilst training together at work. He approached me first whilst I was working. He asked me if I was the girl he was gonna be partnered with when training and I said yes obviously. After that we...
Anonymous
(25-29) What would you encourage your SO to do, if you could clearly see that they have very different passions and hobbies than their current career path?
Would you encourage them to stop what they are doing and even to drop out of their current college, in order to pursue their true passion, even if it may not make as much money? Or would you encourage them to ignore their...
Anonymous
(25-29) How to be normal around your student who you once had a crush on?
Going anonymous because I fear someone I know will notice it and my username is pretty much something people can associate with me. I'll delete the post soon. Now please listen to me before you all start getting worried-...
Anonymous
(18-24) Before we get to the “yes” or the “no,” we need to take care of ourself.
Some people look for ultimatums (usually two) for their “stance” on love. Or relationships… as if it has to be DEFINITE. And Unmoving. Like a law. But us, as living, human beings, are constantly growing in more ways than...
Am I wrong for disliking my bestfriends boyfriend?
So my friend is a host at a local pub and she introduces people on stage before their act. It's usually the same crowd that comes about. She's very fun and outgoing, so men really like her because she can come off as...
Anonymous
(25-29) My boyfriend wants to go to France for his master's and expects me to go as well, but that'd mean catering my plans according to his needs. Selfish?
I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years now. We've been dating since high school and live in India. He's studying engineering while I'm studying English and psychology. He wants to get a business degree from France as...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why is it so easy for non-white women to overlook RED FLAGS of white men?
I remember on this very site, there was a female user from Trinidad, who said she looked down on local men and went into the arms of white men (many of whom were foreigners). The end result was that she got used for sex...
Anonymous
(18-24) Do you think many people underestimate the virtue of balance and rest?
I had 3 medical problems that blocked me from pursuing graduate school when I first finished university, even though my grades and references were so good, every school in the country would have accepted me into their...
Is it sometimes necessary for a man to chase the woman he desires in order to win her over?
I think no one should chase after someone else. I see some men who pursue a woman who initially doesn’t want them, chasing her relentlessly, barely managing to keep her by their side, and then thinking they’ve won. If...
capriVib
Explorer Age: 23 Why does this dynamic happen to me often?
Guy expresses interest in me first >>> Tells me that he’s not interested in pursuing a relationship with me >>> I back off in an attempt to move on and protect my feelings >>> Guy insists on being or staying friends
Anonymous
(30-35) Why did he stop pursuing me suddenly?
I met this guy through work and there were vibes right away, he asked for my number that same day and texted me every few days for the next couple weeks. He also asked me about my relationship status the first day, and I...
thebiz
Xper 4 Age: 25 Is it morally wrong to start a friends with benefits arrangement while dating someone else?
I’ve been dating a woman for almost two years, but she hasn’t wanted to make things official despite spending almost everyday together, we’ve met each other’s friends and families, and gone on three overseas trips...
Anonymous
(30-35) If a man wants to pursue a woman, why can't he take the initiative to plan and set the dates?
I have been talking to this guy for a while now. We have been on a few dates. We are both single parents, which makes things a little more complicated. He has his child part time, but I have mine full time. He always...
Anonymous
(30-35) He doesn’t want a relationship with me, but is desperate to be friends?
He chased down and asked me out multiple times despite rejecting him twice. I gave him a chance and he told me that we weren’t compatible for a relationship because I’m not confident enough for him. I end things and he...
Anonymous
(30-35) Shall I go for avaction for month?
I have filed a legal complaint through a lawyer against my sister’s husband. He entered our home without permission, physically assaulted his wife, and hit my mother. When I tried to defend my sister, he insulted me with...
Anonymous
(30-35) How can I get him to pursue me?
I met a guy at a work conference. We hit it off as friends straight away and have been talking for around a month via text. I told him a few weeks later that I fancied him and I had been thinking about him a lot. He...
Anonymous
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