Search Results: scared of getting in a relationship

Have any of you guys been scared to commit?

I've been seeing this guy for 3 months. I recently asked if things were exclusive between us he said he's not wanting a relationship but he isn't seeing anyone else. I cut it off as I've already wasted 3 months with him....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Am I a bad person if I want to dump a guy because he's boring?

I've been seeing this guy for like a month. At first I liked his energy and that he was so into me, and he's hot. We started as "just fun, no relationship" but then soon after he asked to be a couple and I said yes. At...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Have you ever had a romantic on and off relationship with someone where you never really loose interest in each other completely?

I’ve been seeing a guy on and off since we met 2.5 years ago. There has just been things coming up in the way that have made us having 3-6 months breaks a few times. Just life that gets in the way sometimes. Every...

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Xper 5 Age: 30

I've got a new boyfriend of two months, and he says he will always be there for me. Will he actually mean that or is it just a line?

We've already done loads of things together and I'm extremely happy to be with him. He's brought up wanting to be in a serious relationship and I don't think it's love bombing. He has a few issues which I think...

Anonymous

(36-45)

(Exclusively) Dating with a Deadline - Am I being stupid / used? What should I do? Risk it or save myself from heartbreak?

I have been in an exclusive relationship with a guy for a month. We entered it on the understanding that whatever we have terminates in September whenever he returns home to India. I am struggling with the fear of falling...

emlaraine

Xper 3 Age: 27

Is it normal that I feel confused about this with a guy?

So, I’ve been in a toxic relationship for about 4 years with a man. We are in progress of separation at the moment. I’ve been hanging out with a guy friend since October and I have to admit that I was starting to have...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How to deal with self esteem issues caused from a bad relationship?

So my first love and first relationship scarred me for years. He purposely convinced me that he loved me (and I have strong reason to believe he went out of his way to make me feel like he was in love with me) and after a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Relationship problem with ex (sleeping around )?

Hi , I broke up with my ex three months ago well it was a mutual breakup but it happened in spur of the moment. We didn’t contact for three months then we reached out and he just started uni and so I know it gets crazy...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Am I pushing my boyfriend too much?

so my boyfriend (25) lost is virginity to me. he was inexperienced but i know he’s getting the hang of it. the thing is he doesn't want to go down on me. he said he wants to but he said he doesn't know what to do....

heybay22

Xper 5 Age: 30

Guys, Am I being too hard on my boyfriend?

heybay22

Xper 5 Age: 30

I'm afraid to date? How do I overcome it?

I don't know how to get over this feeling but I believe it's relationship anxiety or commitment issues. Whenever it feels like things are starting to progress in the beginning stages of getting to know each other but...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Clubbing tomorrow with my boyfriends ex?

Tomorrow is the birthday party of one of friends, she is mutual’s with my boyfriends ex. So we were both invited to the party, as well as my boyfriend too. The ex and I hate each other, we fought a lot before and she kept...

xuicide

Xper 2 Age: 24

Why am I so scared to date again?

I’m not young by any means and this is pretty embarrassing. But I was in a 3 year long relationship with someone I really cared about. Prob more than I should of. He cheated over and over again with the same girl. I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Advice Needed please?

The father of my youngest son told me he loved me last night. He was drunk. He is usually a very closed person with thoughts and feelings so it caught me off guard. He also told me I've grown on him as well and he is...

Lilybugg

Xper 2 Age: 37

Is three months too soon to be in love with someone? Should I tell him I love him first? Or wait till he tells me?

We started dating on August so it’s been three months. But I met him back in 2019 when I’ve just gotten out of a long-term relationship. from the start he always let me know that he liked me and wanted A serious future...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do I tell my ex I hooked up with his close friend?

So me and my ex have had an on and off relationship for two years. He dumped me two months ago out of the blue and I was devastated. Two weeks ago (when I was making a little progress moving on) he contacted me and we're...

Anonymous

(25-29)