Am I pushing my boyfriend too much?

[heybay22]

so my boyfriend (25) lost is virginity to me. he was inexperienced but i know he’s getting the hang of it.

the thing is he doesn't want to go down on me. he said he wants to but he said he doesn't know what to do. then in changed to “i dont feel like it” then is reason changed to “i will when i am ready”

im scared he won't ever bc i really enjoy it. we have been together for 5 months and everything in the relationship is great.

also im 22!

Updates

+1 y

i was thinking of not going down on him Lol

[mark000h]

You need to ask him why he's not ready to please you. Communicate with him. Tell him it's important to you, it will please you and assure him that you keep yourself well kept down there. You like to help please him, he should feel the same.

[heybay22]

i go down there all the time. and its good. i can deep throat and swallow easily. i can't say why he can't give me the same reaction Lol. SORRY TMI lol

[mark000h]

Revenge is the worst thing to do. He's inexperienced, you'll make him close up even more. You have to get him to feel comfortable to want to do it. Most guys love pleasing their girl and most guys love pussy. It's not hard just reassure him.

[heybay22]

you are right thank u ✨

[mark000h]

You're welcome. Good luck. 😊

[laura123iu]

yikes leave the poor dude alone, he's getting the hang of it. tbh going down on someone is pretty nasty, you taste other people's fluids, he's prob not into it or not that into u, so u'll have to wait it out or find someone who matches ur needs

[Anonymous]

Maybe he really isn't ready? Seems to me you've had loads of experience already with other guys?

[Jamie05rhs]

Show him videos of girls getting their pussy licked and how much they're enjoying it. Tell him, "I want you to make me feel like that.". Put you hand on his inner thigh and look at him with your puppy dog eyes.

[Jamie05rhs]

Thanks for the MHO.

[Jerre]

One day he’s going to want to eat you, suck your clit. Next time you have sex, be sure to emphasize the size of your swollen clit, tell him to put his mouth around it and suck it gently. Maybe he’ll get the message.

[notwoke]

this man is a simp, move on before you do something stupid like get stuck with him in some kind of legally binding way and then have to break it off in a manner that negatively impacts both of you for life

[bean2k21]

Any good therapist will tell you to take it gradually. Just get one lick today and two tomorrow.

[Jamie05rhs]

That's actually decent advice.

[IHateBeingaMan]

wasn't until 27, close to 28 for me

[Joshua0213]

Nah if that's what you like then he should

[TallAnon]

Well yeah, give him a trade. An incentive to try.

[Jmmmfi4]

Jes nervous he won't be good at itb