So I've liked this guy for a while now, and want to start a relationship with him.
We are friends and talk almost every day, however it's always me that starts the conversations. We have the same interests and he is always happy to talk and seems interested in the conversation, but he is also a very polite man and I can't tell weather or not he actually wants to talk to me.
He could just be shy, but in that case am I being to pushy or forward? I am also a little taller than him which I personally don't mind at all, but maybe it's intimidating for him?
I know his ex and she looks a bit like me but a lot shorter. Is there a way to get him to start the conversation instead? Side note: yesterday I overheard him and his buddy talking about future tech and space travel and stuff- all things I'm really interested in, but I didn't want to seem like I was butting into their conversation or eavesdropping so I just walked away.
Most Helpful Opinions
well i don't think height matters that much in a relationship as i am in a relationship with a taller girl im about 5ft7 and she's 5ft8 , we both are pretty introvert and shy but with matching interests and aspirations, i am currently in med school and she will join this year, we have pretty similar interests in sports and music too, i remember our first date was going on a hiking trip where we both actually confessed our mutual feelings for each other, i suggest you go for a fun outing wherever you like where you could probably talk about you feelings a bit more openly, there is nothing pushy about having a candid conversation, and you'll feel a heavy burden being lifted off your back because if you really are into someone and cannot express it, it weights you down greatly so communicate... all the best
Yes great idea, I guess if confess and I get rejected at least I'll know, plus he's the kinda person I would still wanna be friends with and go on friend outings :)