If you are humane about it, than no. You are not a bad person. Just don't give them the "It's not you, it's me." Line, because they are aware that it is them, and your candor is a bitter medicine they can respect, but lying about finding yourself is a kick between the legs.
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No, that’s a perfectly good reason to end the relationship. Leaving a relationship is not like firing someone from a job. Don’t waste his time or yours. Just tell him “Sorry, I don’t think it’s going to work. We don’t have enough in common. Best wishes.”
Girl.. life is too short to be living in a relationship that sucks. You deserve better. There are tons of great guys out there in this wide wide world.
Our time in this planet is limited and it should be spent with people who make it worthwhile. 🌻
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He needs some growing up. Enabling doesn't help. If you wait it out low chance he will change. Zero chance you change him and he stays with you. If you make him feel. Bad about himself you will end up split anyways. He may someday wish he was different when you knew each other but it's not happening together. Sorry
He most likely knows he can get hotter b-tches than you so he doesn't put in effort. You sound somewhat insecure yourself, I'm assuming you look average 6 out of 10? Plus you're in your 30s, it's gonna be hard for you to find what you could back in your late teens and 20s. I could say more, but it might destroy you.
I’d say dump him, he obviously cherishes his weed over you and anyone who chooses drugs over someone isn’t worth the hassle. He clearly doesn’t have any respect for you especially if he is ignoring your texts at times.
Hope you find what you are looking for!You are over thinking it. You've discovered you're incompatible but you have a scarcity mindset so are afraid to leave him.
After each failed relationship, times goes by and then you have to try and find someone else. If you really care about him try to work things out before you dump him.
You can dump anyone for any reason, it's not inherently evil to look after your own well-being. Probably worth letting him know he is not who you thought he was, hoping he changes for the better?
Not at all you need to be happy in your relationship. He is boring in general or in bed?
No your getting old. Might not want to if he is good lol
No. You're actually doing him a favor. Better he find out what type of a person you are now then after he's invested in you.
It sounds like he is a albatross around your neck. Execute your escape plan.
You're a bad person for thinking it and not doing it
nuke him! you need a guy who's a Do-er. I've always said, a motivated partner is key.
Why would you date someone that doesn’t thrill you?
I thought smoking weed was cool. wtf. maybe give him a chance to change?
He's not the only one who's boring.
Nope, he sounds like a total loser, drop his ass!
Nope. That's a legit reason
I don’t think that’s wrong
Nope dump him he sounds like a loser
No I will do the same
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