There are a lot of possibilities
He could have been hurt himself on his past relationship, and not because he doesn't want to hurt you, but because he is scared for his own health. in that case you need to prove to him that you really care, and are loyal (this is important if his ex had cheated on him) look above him, and show him that you respect him, and value his time. There is also a small chance that he is just testing your patience.
The fact that he makes it clear that he is not seeing anyone else, is a good sign. so hold onto that for a while.
In worst case scenario, he is not mature enough to commit and he is scared.
Maybe he wants to invest, and take care of himself more at this stage or year, but he doesn't want to lose you, and maybe he is thinking to himself, okay i will be done with this and that, some self development and in summer i will commit to this girl if she stays loyal to me, guys won't say it to you when the time is right, but they know when.
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Even if he's legit about that.. Not cool he didn't say that from the start or give any big hints along the way... Dude is just enjoying all the attention...
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He isn't scared of getting hurt. He's scared of not being able to fuck around.
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