Search Results: scaring a guy off

He seems less interested after trying svral times b4, but I wasn't ready. I text him to apologize and he was nice, but haven't heard from him in days?

I've known this g since elementary and 3 years ago he sends me a message, we connect and have fun talking to each. We ended up meeting up after a month and hooking up. After, I stopped talking to him because my baby daddy...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

Do you think people get turned off or scared when people start showing interest?

There’s times when I’ve found out that a girl likes me and it’ll be someone I like myself and so I’ll try to text them more. However it seems like they aren’t as interested or they start to text less, which seems...

cookieman12

Guru Age: 25

Did he change his mind?

We started texting with a guy from my hometown. I moved away to college. It's like 1,5 hour distance. This guy texted me every day for a week, first thing in the morning, liking all my pictures. I didn't really put much...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I see myself kissing him but I don't see myself having sex with him?

Let me start off I am waiting for marriage and when it comes to sexual thoughts or having sex I get uncomfortable. I'm so used to waiting and not doing anything that I can't fathom actually having sex one day it makes me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why are men angry when another men admits he is attractive to women?

I used to be an incel. But I was also very attractive. Women were put off by my "omega male" social issues. Omega male isn't really a thing but I was one of those guys who never had a friend and was scared of people....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Was he weirdly turned on by this?

So there’s this guy at work who I think there definitely might be some sexual tension with. He’s teased me before and complimented my scent and stuff and I don't know wtf it is but everytime he talks to me there’s this...

Anonymous

(25-29)

His phones been off for 3 hours does this mean he’s sleeping around?

I’m with this guy and we live together. We only moved in recently around 3 weeks ago so everything of his is at mine, everything. There’s literally nothing at his moms house except his bed. We also have a child on the...

xolaurenxx

Xper 6 Age: 27

My marriage has been crumbling for years, we stay together for the kids. When do we say enough?

I’ve been with my husband since 2013. His parents always hated me because I wasn’t religious enough for them, not their race or their culture. He cheated on me many times in the first few years. He said he...

Twincapersredmomma

Xper 3 Age: 37

Is he messing with me or being a creep?

This guy has had convos with me before where’s he’s been awkward. He’s complimented the way I smelled and once I told him I was looking for him and he was like “we’re you?” Kind of flirtatiously. He’s nice and has a...

Helloeriss01

Xper 7 Age: 25

How long should you wait for a response before losing hope when you ask someone out?

There's a guy I've known for a few years now. We started casually chatting on Snapchat and talked on and off for a week. Since we already know each other, and talking was really fun and easy, I decided I wanted to ask him...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why would someone cancel a first-date last minute?

So I had planned a date with a guy I met on Instagram. I actually had met him 3 years ago on tinder.. Well recently we hit it off on Instagram. I said to him maybe we should meet up and we set up a date. He seemed to be...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why did he say I was projecting?

Been talking to this guy on text (he is a friend's friend) who happens to live in another country while I live in his home country. We went on a date (which was the first time we met in person) when he came home during...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Were my coworkers flirting with each other?

I know occasionally coworkers will flirt or even date, and I’m usually one to mind my business, but there’s a mid 20s girl and a 60 year old man I work with and the more I’m around them and see them interact I’m convinced...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Did he like that I was jealous?

I have a coworker who there’s been some weird vibes. I think he may be interested but I feel like he’s definitely at the very least attracted to me. He’s said I smelled nice once or when I do him a favor he’ll say “thank...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I break the no-contact that I initiated, and how do I make it clear I just want him as a friend?

there was this guy that I became friends with and we ended up becoming really close. I ended up gathering feelings for him but didn't want to do anything about them since I wanted to keep him as a friends and wasn't...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

Why does he keep acting so different around me?

I thought this guy was flirting with me and he also loves giving me a hard time I think. We work together and he’s older and he’s given me compliments before on the way I smell and that I looked great which I don’t...

Helloeriss01

Xper 7 Age: 25

What's a girl to do?

I met this guy while on a business trip last year and have been hanging out whenever I'm in town ever since. I've gone to great lengths to hide my feelings for him, playing all sorts of games and acting like he meant...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do girls hanging out with their guy friends scare off guys who want to ask the girl out?

So I have some friends who are guys and I often wonder if me hanging out with them scares off potential suitors? Like maybe they think that I’m dating my guy friend or something when in actuality, they’re either my...

thatshydork

Xper 7 Age: 23