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My husband has gained a lot of weight lately. How can I bring this up without starting a fight?

So, my husband used to be pretty fit, but over the last year or so, he’s put on quite a bit of weight. I love him no matter what, but I’m starting to worry about his health and, honestly, sometimes I miss the old him who...
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Why do we sometimes miss people who hurt us?

You know they weren’t good for you… but your mind still goes back. Is it really them you miss or the memories, the comfort, or the version of yourself you were with them? Why do we hold on to people who let us down?
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Why are people so damn mean when someone lost a loved one?

I don’t understand why people can say what the fuck they want after your parents, grandparents or whoever dies. Nobody called to check up on me on my first Mother’s Day when my mom died last year. One of the girls that...
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Fix myself or find another man first?

I know what the attitudes are towards single women my age. Please try to keep this nice. I don’t open up to people that easily so this really hurts. I recently got dumped and he was straight with me about everything that...
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Have you ever been disrespected or humiliated by your crush?

I have. I had the biggest crush on this high school job and he was good looking and 6’5. I obsessed over him since freshman year. Four years. My guy friend never liked him and he asked me what’s so great about him? My...
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Why do woman need to be so skinny that it looks unhealthy?

Like I find it disgusting. It dosen't hurt to eat a cheeseburger. Besides your body won't be beautiful forever once you get old and wrinkly.
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What does a guy mean that I gotta go lower to get respect from a good man as a tall woman?

My ex boyfriend years ago flirted with my friend (she dated him years before) right in front of me and I was so hurt and my bestie told me about it and she said I hit him. I don’t remember hitting him. I mean I liked him...
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Am I wrong for wanting to fix my friend up?

I matchmake. It’s what I do for my friends and not to toot my own horn, but I’m good at it. I’ve brought so many of my friends into happy, healthy relationships that eventually turned into happy marriages. I have one...
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My friend won’t except she was in a situationship. Am I wrong for calling it like I see it?

She met this guy 11 months ago. He broke it off with her last month because she was late in meeting him. They acted like boyfriend/girlfriend but never labeled it and yet she’s still acting like it’s a breakup and calling...
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When old love makes us sink…

There are loves that lift us and then there are the ones that drown us slowly. We don’t always notice it at first. An old bad love doesn’t come back into our lives with fireworks. It sneaks in quietly, in the space...
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Is vulnerability a strength or a weakness in today’s world?

These days everyone tries to act tough, like they don't care, don't feel, don't cry. But does opening up really make you weak, or does it take real strength to be honest about your feelings? In your experience, has being...
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Why British women are so hated

I'm so done with the negative stereotypes on British women and the level of hate we get so if you thought this was gonna be me bashing my own your sadly mistaken. "British WOMEN ARE TOO LOUD!!!" British woman often get...
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If you can give one advice to your 18 years old self, what would it be? Why?

Don’t fall for Sean. He just will pop your cherry and move on to the next girl and it hurts.
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A situationship isn’t love, it’s emotional abuse in disguise…

We live in a time where “it’s complicated” has become a normal relationship status. Where casual hookups are expected, and commitment is seen as pressure. But there’s a painful truth underneath all the mixed signals and...
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I called him out his name, what are your thoughts about this?

We’ve been on and off for three years. He’s been inconsistent, hurt me, and rarely showed remorse. Recently, he’s been trying to improve, but I still struggle to forgive his past actions, like ignoring me, disrespecting...
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Have you ever CUT your THUMB?

Today, I cut the tip of the thumb on my right hand on a piece of glass. It was a small cut, but impossible to put a bandage on just the tip, so I kept pressure on it until the bleeding stopped. It's amazing how much we...
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Guys, My boyfriend ignored me when I reached out to him when I was struggling mentally, what should I do?

My boyfriend hasn’t been making time to talk to me lately. One text here or there just saying hi and apart from that, not much else. He just leaves me on read and replies a day later with hi or messages me when he wants...
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Why? What does he want? he is 28? is he gone for good?

we were ok the first trip he was ok 8 months he came back home and after 2 months told me i should have done x, when he said he could be their for me and I didn't do it. 2 weeks later he dumped me via text telling me not...
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When you were a 10 year old boy, did hanging out with your mom seem unappealing?

My son used to get so excited about wanting to go to the park, or just walk around the mall with me to kill time. I ask him if we wants to go out for ice cream, go to the park for a walk, or if he wants to go outside to...
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Is this grief even if I'm better now during breakup?

There's a feeling— it's like without your ex, life just feels narrow or gloomy. Like no matter what fun things you do, if they’re not in your life, everything loses its flavor. It’s that kind of feeling. Honestly, I...
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