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So I was kicked out of a group for exposing a man and people felt that I was “bitter” and called me “crazy” for speaking my truth on this man. It was a very invalidating experience.

Let me be clear on why I’m exposing him…

1. He did not respect my boundaries when it came to having sex and ended trying to use manipulation. I made it clear to him before we exchanged numbers that I wasn’t in a space to have sex or be in a relationship. He kind of wanted to know why etc and he wasn’t pushy.. but he said things he felt I NEEDED to hear… and at first I’m thinking wow maybe he is genuine and understanding. Looking back it was hard to see his “coercive behavior…” to get what he wanted and wanted to gain my trust. Even saying how can I make you feel safe

2. Subtle changes in behavior after telling him that I wanted to take things slow with him and gaslighting.. I did end up liking him and when I said that… that’s when it started taking hours for him to respond and then it went to days… only to get a “sorry really busy”…. But it kept happening and I confronted him and he tried to say that I needed to “heal”….. but it was strange behavior coming from a man who was trying to make me feel “safe” initially…

3. Disrespect… (devalue/discard) everything was cool on the date at first but then he became disrespectful and rude… he started asking when I last had sex, dildos, negging behavior and some insults.

4. Not being honest about his real name even on the date.. I asked him if “Craig” was his real name and he said yes… I get you want to protect yourself but he really did not want to tell me his name and seemed annoyed when I asked. It was very fishy

5. After the “date” i tried finding a “gf”…. Bc i felt like he was talking to someone.. he has no social media presence and keeps things private

6. He is possibly bisexual or closeted based on some things I found

I pretended to be this guy that follows her.. ( I know him and wanted to know if they are connected) I believe she does sex work in the same city. She doesn’t follow him back.

I sent a pic and asked if she still had my number she said no…

Then she said where would ik you from ( ig she didn’t recognize his pic)

Then I sent another pic and said his name ect…

Explained that I had another page.. etc.. she requested to follow me.

She stopped responding

Before anyone says anything please ik what I did was wrong and stalkerish blah blah oh tf well. I did it. Answer the question or move on

This guy follows a tranny in the same city.. I’ve been wondering for months if they mess around.. so since he follows her she doesn’t follow him back.

But i pretended to be him and sent her a message saying “do you still have my number “

She replied “no”

I ask “can we meet up” etc

She replied “we’re would I know you from?”

Then I sent another picture and said his name and location

… she stopped replying..