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There's an old saying a leopard never changes it's spots.

So someone who is abusive likely will never change. Someone who uses drugs will likely never change. Someone who doesn't manage mental health issues properly likely never will.

And so forth.

Given this do you feel that it's smart to get a background & other - such as financial / credit (for gambling issues, etc.) - checks on someone you're dating / getting into a relationship.

Particularly as unless you know person - via friends, neighbors or work - you're likely never going to meet the previous people they dated & thus have no reference for their behavior.

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It's very easy - and happens quite often - for abusive individuals to pretend to be "nice" until they lull their victims into a sense of false security.

And by doing checks you can find out that "nice guy (or girl)" may have being beating the shit out of their previous partner BEFORE they are beating the shit out of you.

i apologize in advance if its too long.

• I have a male friend who is bisexual.. He told me few weeks ago he is recently interested in guys rather than girls. He just had a guy ghost him last month We are super close coworkers and became friends at work. He is really sweet, he always texts me if im coming in tonight or he asks the boss to pair us up at work He compliments my jewelry, or if i curled my hair that day he is the first one to notice. Once after our shift i told him i was cold and he invited me up in his flat made me coffee, gave me one of his hoodies to wear. He showed me pictures of his family and told stories about them. Next day i showed up at work wearing his hoodie. He complimented that it looks nice on me. I wore it through the shift and i wanted to give it back to him but he said i should keep it in case i'll be cold again. But ofc i gave it back because i didn't want to steal it. I talked to one of my other guy friends once and he told me jokingly that i cheated on him. Then he started telling me things like that guy is hot/ who is that pretty blonde over there? I told him that she was this handsome guy's girlfriend the next day i pointed at him and told him that is the boyfriend of the blondie He remembered that i said he was handsome and commented on it that if i think that guy is handsome than my bar is really low. So i asked who is handsome then, like where should the bar be. He said "me".

Or this other time he said he likes it when some1 is cuddly I asked him why he told me that. He said no reason, but asked:why? Am i not cuddly? Also laughed it off.. He is always teasing me tho with my height and basically with everything. But he also said my friends were pretty girls but didn't include me.. But him mentioning that he checked this guy's pics and my friend being pretty or so on, maybe all this could be just him making a new friend?