Is it a red flag if he wants to be exclusive & says he will tell other girls he is talking to someone but says he doesn't think labels are necessary?

[Fluffybunny888]

he is a private person and likes relationships to be private because he doesn't like to answer annoying questions from his immature friends but when i asked him what we are he said "if you want you can consider me your boyfriend" but also said he doesn't think labels are necessary. is this a bad sign or do some guys just dont want labels? he keeps mentioning the future with me once we start college together but for 2 more months we will be long distance. is that whh he doesn't want to commit? is he jusr lusting after me? when making out he is respecting my pace even though he seems to want more and checks to make sure i am comfortable but i dont quite understand why he is shying away from a label..

[LostandFound__x]

I think he wants to be exclusive but isn’t ready to be in a relationship.

That might sound weird but some people need time to get into relationships. I know because I am one of those people.

If you like him - being exclusive means he likes you too. But you shouldn’t be pushy and just let things go at a soft pace. Being pushy will drive someone like him away.

[zero444440000]

I don't know. all i know is that when me and my girlfriend were together for the first few mouths she didn't know/have a label for me. so i told her i be whatever she wants me to be and that i love her all the same and always been there for her no matter what. after a few more mouths we now madly in love and both label each other as girlfriend and boyfriend and we still going strong and have been in a happy relationship of a year and a half "getting close to becoming 2 years"

[ProbablyClueless]

That fact he doesn't want to put labels on things is weird

[In_Trance]

I don't know if it's a red flag but it is fucking retarded

[Anonymous]

He has commitment issues.